zzz asked, Hey love guru my name is prince, i have been infected by HIV 1 month back. I love 1 girl and she want to have sex with me. Pls help
Love Guru answers, I hope you have told her about your condition? That's something you absolutely have to do. If she is still agreeable, before you get intimate with her you must both visit your doctor and find out exactly how to go about this. Don't get carried away and do something foolish, because HIV is a potentially fatal infection and unless your doctor tells you what precautions to take, you'll pass it onto her.
Apps asked, i am in love with a guy for past 2yrs,he is also very loving person, he care for with and love me a lot but the prol is that he is not of my cast my family is against this,they are not ready for that,and in the other hand guy family are ready they meet me and told everything that they don't have any prol, but i am in delima wht do to, i don't want to disappoint my family and they are not ready to accept this guys,tell me the best ways wht should i do?plz hepl me love guru
Love Guru answers, I'd suggest you make a decision that will ensure your happy future, with or without your family's permission. That is, assuming you're an adult of marriageable age -- if not, I'd suggest you wait till you're old enough to decide what is right for your future.
dinesh asked, Hi Love guru! I am a married man. I have few girl friends who occasionly met in my business workings. Even some are married.Loveguru, they talk me on phone call me and also say me I will call when my hubby will not be here. Though they don't talk or try any unfair only like good friends but why then to say and try talking after their hubby?? What is this Love guru?? I should do such friendship or not?
Love Guru answers, Dinesh, if you've told your wife about your friends and she doesn't have a problem with them you're lucky. Because most people are foolishly insecure when it comes to their partners' friends of the opposite sex. That's why they probably hide it, even though they aren't doing anything wrong. But make sure you don't give any of them the wrong impression -- that you're looking to have an affair.
sahil asked, i liked a girl during school time.but somehow i couldn't tell her.but now she is committed to someone else.i m feeling desparate,anxious,what to do.should i tell her or not?
Love Guru answers, You had a childhood crush. It's time to get over it instead of being so dramatic. You can tell her, but most likely if she's committed to someone else she will say no. And you need to take that graciously, as it's her life and her decision.
rakesh asked, I LOVE A GIRL.BUT I THINK SHE ALREADY HAD HER BOYFRND. BUT I CANNOT LIVE WITHOUT HER.WHAT I HAVE TO DO PLZ TELL ME......
Love Guru answers, He loves her, she loves him. You love her, but unfortunately, my friend, she doesn't love you. So instead of being so dramatic, you need to accept that certain things we want in life don't always go our way. It will prick you a little to move on, but in two months' time you will be fine if you only let yourself be --instead of stewing over a hopeless situation.
andy asked, I am going around with a girl.....she loves me but i feel she does not trust me....and she is very short tempered and gets excited very fast.....I love her a lot....I at times get very pissted off with her behaviour....wht should I do
Love Guru answers, Sit her down, make her promise not to lose her temper and start shouting and tell her you want to discuss her behaviour. Say you love her a lot but that you can't handle her excitable nature, so she should try to tone things down and speak maturely whenever there is an argument. If she has any sense, she'll make the effort.
ravusuny asked, hi LG..i had a frnd frm long time but we were so close dat we felt love for each othr. i proposed her but at dat time she rejectd by saying my family wont accept coz of caste prob. still we continued talking n thn we got job in same city n we often met. When we are together even she tells me that she loves me but when shez alone she thinks abt her family n tells me i dnt love u.. its just i m with you coz u love me. but i have seen her crying for me n many times she even said i just want 2 live with u , want 2 run away with u... but now from last 2 wks shez pretending that she was doing all drama n she dsnt love me. it happned coz i talked with her sister n even she said that their father wont accept. so shez not talking 2 me. but she still cares. she gives me blank calls n even i got her sms yestrdy that can we talk for 2 mins?? but i know even if i talk shez not so strong to support me.
Love Guru answers, Send her an email or sms telling her that while you know she has a difficult decision to make, it's time she made up her mind. Either she decides to be with you at all costs, or then she calls it off and behaves like a normal friend. This is not fair to you either -- one day yes, the next, no. If she says no and that she wants to be friends, be just that and no more. It may be hard at first, but if you carry on like this you will suffer heartbreak.
Also see: 'My fiance confessed to visiting a prostitute'