reena asked, hi,i love with one person,he's very good but due to sm misunderstanding he didn't rec my calls,plz tell me what should i do??
Love Guru answers, Try approaching him personally and tell him he should at least give you a chance to tell your side of the story. If he's so unreasonable as not to listen even then, don't pursue things. Such an illogical person isn't worth the trouble.
sweety asked, 25 yrd old girl,have problem that 3 years back when my sis got pg i go to her place ,in her absence my brother in law kiss me offer me to get intimate relationship with him,i told my mom just go back to my home,than after my sis delivery ,my parents and sis question him,he opologised,but now i am very afraid of him ,always find uncomfortable when he is around me.even my parents wants me to forget for my sis sakes.i love my sis a lot so i forgive him,but i told her i never want to talk or meet him,she agree.i don,t want to spoil my sis home.but somehow i am unable to forget it fully..now talks of my marriage going around,i feel if my would be hubby know ,than what happen,may be he don,t trust me.can you give me solution so that i will be happy i my future life.
Love Guru answers, You did nothing wrong and since only your immediate family knows about this, I doubt anyone else will ever find out. Moreover, if your to-be husband is told, if he has any sense, he will appreciate your good sense and how you handled the situation.
murali asked, i am in love with a girl, and we became intimate soon, now I just find her boring, but feel emotionally black mailed. What to do?
Love Guru answers, You say you're on love, then you say you're bored and feel emotionally blackmailed. Basically, you want to have physical relations with other girls and your guilt is eating you up. Right? You've behaved like a jerk, so now have some respect for her and if you don't love her anymore, tell her the truth gently and apologise for your behaviour instead of leading her on. And next time, think twice before rushing into a relationship and taking advantage of someone. Remember, what goes around comes around -- if you don't mend your ways, you'll find that someone else will do the same to you.
Meenal asked, Hi i am married since 8 months and prior to marriage i had an affair after marriage he left mumbai and we are not meeting at all.. I tried my best to avoid but then he keeps coming in my mind. I feel i cant live without him but then i dont want to cheat my husband at all.. he is a nice person.. should i tell him and go away.. i really tried hard to forget him.. My relations are very pure with my ex till date please adivice
Love Guru answers, Meenal, why did you get married if you were in love with someone else? You say your husband is a nice person -- why don't you give him a chance to make you happy and get your marriage to work? It's all very fine to think about running away and being with your ex, but the situation may not be the same in reality. He may have a partner too or things may not work out with him. You made a decision to move on when you got married to someone else, now stick to it.
NIDHI asked, pls.na yar help me na, this is 5time that i am writing u. i am in very difficult position. that early i said , i love him a lot, but he ignoring me, when i call him he laways say that he is busy , he not replaying my msg. my phone calls, evenhe is not take initiave to meet me , when i asked him about his behavier he said that this is only a misunderstanding , but he never try it solve the problem , i dont know he love me or not b.coz he never admit and when i ask he sai u r irriteting me. pls. give me suggetion . pls. pls.
Love Guru answers, I answered you last time! This is what I told you -- Why do you want a fair-weather boyfriend, who is indifferent towards you whenever he chooses to be? Stop being a doormat. I would suggest you stop calling and messaging altogether. If he really loves you, he will call or message to ask what's wrong and you can tell him you won't make any time for him unless he does the same. If he doesn't get back to you, get the message -- he's not interested, so stop trying to force him to be.
geeta asked, hi
Myself g... i m a divorcee..n my bf is unmarried...we liked each other a lot...we been in relationship since last 4 yrs...then he approached his family for our marriage..but they denied..n he got engage with another girl...but he still wants me in his life... i don know wat is the rational decision to be taken...shall i blame him for these things happen..let him go from my life...or wat to do...pls suggest...n pls keepthe info confidential..
regards,
Love Guru answers, My dear, this coward wants to have his cake and eat it too. Don't let him -- kick him out of your life if he marries someone else. Don't you want a husband and family? So what if you're divorced? Don't you deserve a second chance at happiness? Either he marries you or then her -- he can't and shouldn't have both.
Zazzy asked, Im completely in love with my wife and there is no problem whatsoever, but the issue is when ever we have sex im always thinking / fantasizing of someone else..what should i do LG?
Love Guru answers, It's very simple -- keep your eyes open and appreciate your wife's body instead of letting your thoughts wander.
Also see: 'She's used black magic to make me love her'
Advertisement
