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'She's stalking me even though I'm married'

September 5, 2008

safi asked, hi LG i m into garment and have appointed a female designer from last one and a half month well she is good looking and hot and the problem is she is married so am i LG i would like to have an affiar with her and the problem is that i dont know how to propose here can u have a guts to help me out in my case do reply me

Love Guru answers, You have no case -- you're a creep. Imagine asking my help to cheat on your wife! And remember, she's your employee -- you make any unprofessional move towards her and she can make an official complaint against you for sexual harassment! And it'll be what you deserve!


Samir asked, Hi LG, How are you? i am in love with a girl, she is from a different cast, my parent have agreed for our marriage, but her parents are not ok with this. they say that their relegion and caste is all for them, they dont even care for their daughters life, they say that they will even kill us if we get married...plz suggest me how to convince them

Love Guru answers, Samir, if you are both adults and of legal marriageable age, get married and complain at the police station about her parents threatening your life and hers. It's fine for them to follow their own practices, but they can't force them on their daughter.


jitu asked, Hi Loveguru, I am confused shuold i prapose a girl in my office or not, she has recenty joined the companey, my heart wish to talk to her however mind doesnot help,help me please

Love Guru answers, It would be stupid to propose to her just like that, without even knowing her properly. She will say no. Become friends first. Find out about her life -- how do you know whether she has a boyfriend already, or is married? keep things casual, become friends and then if there's nothing to hinder you, tell her you have feelings for her.


Jayant asked, Hi, I am a happyly married man since last 7 yr. But Since last 3 month one lady who is know to us contineously send me SMS praposing me. I tried to pacify her in all possible ways. I even told this to her husband but still don't want to listen any thing. She keep on sending SMS even in the mdnights. My wife knows everything about this. My question is what do I do so that she will stop behaving like this.

Love Guru answers, Jayant, you need to complain to the police. This amounts to harassment. You can also have your mobile network service blacklist her number, so that she can never get through to you.


Leena asked, hi love guru there's guy in my office, who looks at me many times, he is smart, good looking but not from our team(so i don`t talk to him). I like him but i dont know whether its love or not. but i get upset when he is not around... Is it Love ?

Love Guru answers, No, it's attraction. You don't know the first thing about him yet.


li asked, i am 34 yrs old unmarried at prsent i am seeing a seperated man he says i can marry him he is 44 yrs old shd i opt for as he is pressing early marriage

Love Guru answers, If you love him and you want to, why not? But first make sure his divorce from his first wife has come through and is 100 percent final.


PREET asked, Hi, Sir, some days before I have been engaged. We both Love each other very deeply. But she is not interested in talking about sex. It seems she is not interested in Sex.

Love Guru answers, Preet, it's very likely that she prefers to wait till you are married. So ask her if that's the case and don't try to pressurise her.


anon asked, Guruji, my frnd( not my GF) says that she wants me to let her be for a while, what it means?

Love Guru answers, It means she wants space and time away from you. Since you seem to be good friends, ask her why she wants to cut contact with you for awhile -- is it because she's angry with you? It could be possible that she has feelings for you or that you have feelings for her and she'd rather not pursue things either way? Just talk to her honestly, and you'll know why she's doing this.


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