RahulVerma asked, Hi love guru this is rahul from bangalore... My question is..How do i find someone who will love me unconditionally?

Love Guru answers, You can't. Nobody loves anybody unconditionally. Yes, people make compromises and sacrifices for loved ones, but that's not unconditional. When you find someone who loves you, don't take advantage of that fact by trying to get away with anything in the name of unconditional love.

manjunath asked, hi love guru my problem is 5 years before i have married before marriage i was having with a married woman she is too good she likes and treat like her husband this was my life one year before one girl joined our firm intially i used to talk to her friendly somedays after she got impressed and became very close to me i was not so impressed to her. she quitted the job and joined somewherelse she was in touch with me in phone we used to talk very friendly. but now i am so impressed to her without speaking to her i feel very sad so once i sent an sms that i am unable to be without you and after that i asked sorry my opinion was not like that she forgive me and whenever i call her she is not speaking like earlier and stopped calling to me whenever i call she speaks to me i am unable to understand her she likes my friendship or not.

Love Guru answers, She already knows you have feelings for her. So why not ask her opinion about those feelings? Tell her that if she just wants to remain friends you will respect that, but if she is willing to give a relationship with you a try, you will make her very happy.

addmin1 asked, thnks,,,bt I do share dis wit my hubby...he is hving idea abt it.....but nt completely...I am sure i ll never fall 4 him,,, bt somehow i wanna stop his politely

Love Guru answers, So stop him politely. Tell him you're married and it's inappropriate for him to talk to you like he does. Say that you would appreciate it if he behaves like a professional. If he has any sense, he'll stop.

papia asked, hi, I love a man. he loves me also, we will marry in next yr. he sometimes rebuke me and tells very slang which hearted me very much and that time I feel pain in my heart. what I will do?

Love Guru answers, Look, sweetheart, if the way he talks upsets you, tell him that. If you already have and it's not working, start talking back to him the same way he talks to you. When he's on the receiving end, maybe he'll realise how hurtful it is and that he should learn to control his tongue.

mahesh asked, Is there is any miracle People told " Usko Kuch khila dia" same think happen with me i m married with one 2 year son i love a bengali girl last two year now she is married but i can't forgetting her. and my family telling me bengali are so famouse in this type of job but i can't say she did this type of job. please tell me it is possible.

Love Guru answers, Mahesh, instead of believing all this hocus-pocus, you need to strengthen your mind and make a conscious effort towards your marriage. It's an excuse for your family to conveniently blame that innocent girl in this manner, instead of seeing the real picture -- that you are in love with another woman instead of your wife. But she is married and you are too, so the only thing that can get her out of your head is you.

mahesh asked, Is there is any miracle People told " Usko Kuch khila dia" same think happen with me i m married with one 2 year son i love a bengali girl last two year now she is married but i can't forgetting her. and my family telling me bengali are so famouse in this type of job but i can't say she did this type of job. please tell me it is possible.

Love Guru answers, Mahesh, instead of believing all this hocus-pocus, you need to strengthen your mind and make a conscious effort towards your marriage. It's an excuse for your family to conveniently blame that innocent girl in this manner, instead of seeing the real picture -- that you are in love with another woman instead of your wife. But she is married and you are too, so the only thing that can get her out of your head is you.

gautam asked, hi, i love a school girl she is only 18 but i am 30 that is ok or not

Love Guru answers, No it's not, Gautam. She's a teenager who's still growing up. She is too young for a serious relationship with an older guy like you.

sach asked, lve guru, i had deep relationship with one gal from last 2 years. even we involved phisically. Now a days she is becoming careless in terms of apperarance & looks. She gained 15kg. She has taken me granted. Recently my mom met her & turned against our marriage. even i m also in dilenma. What to do?

Love Guru answers, It's quite superficial of your mom to turn against your marriage just because your girlfriend put on a little weight! But you can handle this quite tactfully -- tell your girlfriend that you loved the way she looked when you met her and you want her to look that way for your wedding. Tell her it turns you on when she grooms herself and looks after her appearance. Help her drop the weight by visiting a dietician or a gym.