Are you hesitant to make compromises for the person you love?

In a chat with Get Ahead readers on September 4, the Love Guru addressed many such problems. For those of you who missed it, here's the unedited transcript.

Love Guru says, Greetings, people! Let's get started with the Love Guru chat!

yogi asked, Hi Guru, when she proposed me i rejected but now i have a crush on her but she is rejecting, what to do???

Love Guru answers, Stop playing these cat and mouse games with each other and have a serious conversation. Ask her whether she is saying no only because you said no first. If so, she is being rather childish about the whole thing. Explain that if you both have feelings for each other, you should get together regardless of who said no earlier.

himanshu asked, hi....my girlfriend left me without telling me any reason.i cant forget her,,,what do i do?

Love Guru answers, Himanshu, anybody who behaves in such a manner doesn't deserve your love or respect. Start dating other women and realise that you're better off without a person like your ex.

sweatha asked, hi i m sweatha, married, but have a friend, he is asking for sex, but not forcing me, i am not used to such things, but somehow i liked him i dont know what to do,often i feel like having, some times not. i am into depression help me.

Love Guru answers, Sweatha, stop sweating it out! If you're happy with your husband, don't put your marriage in jeopardy by fooling around with this friend of yours -- he's an opportunist. It's a thrill to be getting attention from another man in secret, I know, but that thrill will cost you dearly if you act on it. Tell him the answer is no and do so firmly. Also, if he behaves in such an inappropriate manner again by propositioning you, cut off all ties with him.

admin asked, hi..I am 26 married, HR professional, a married HR manager of a reputed comp is consittantly proposing me even after knowing that I am married..I am avoiding him,, bt due2 work i really have to talk 2 himm,wenever we talk abt professional things at the end he adds "I want U" , so many times I stopped him but no succcess.....somewhere it affecting me....even i also thinks abt him...Bt i love my hubby 2 much,,,, help me

Love Guru answers, Have you ever heard of sexual harassment? This man is being improper and unprofessional by hitting on you. Stop being foolish enough to consider this. How you choose to put a stop to this is your call -- either get a colleague of yours to interact with him instead of you and avoid him completely, or make an official complaint. You may also consider telling your husband about how he talks to you.

addmin1 asked, hi LG,,I am a married female,I use 2 luv a perosn in my college tym, Bt it was nt successful,,,, I love my husband bt I am nt able 2 forget that person,wat do i do.....tell me sumthing like I ll forget that person...I wanna through his memory out of my lyf....

Love Guru answers, Look, you can't flush your memories down the toilet. They will always be with you. By your own admission you love your husband. So stop making comparisons and learn to appreciate what you have in your marriage. Memories are the past -- make peace with yours and they will stop haunting you. They're like the pages of a book you've already read.

ekta asked, hi luv guru i dnt knw what to do..idnt hv any bf..evn if guys proposed me i said no to them...i dnt knw what to do..plz help

Love Guru answers, Ekta, why are you complaining? You've said no to boys yourself, probably because you feel nothing for them. And that's a wise decision. When a boy who interests you comes along, simply say yes!

parmatma asked, I am feeling very shy to propose again to my girlfriend

Love Guru answers, How can you be shy of proposing to your girlfriend? That's ridiculous! Either you're not explaining yourself properly or you're just being foolish. If she said 'yes' once, she's not going to say 'no' the second time around!