aceninja asked, hi love guru...i am in a realtionship for since 2003.i got married to my lady love in 2007.Our relationship was explosive and had a lot of chemistry.You can also say that we were very sexually active.After getting married things suddenly began to change.she said that i was very demanding at sex and would not let her sleep in peace.I somehow wasn't sensitive.....screwed up.She said she was facing too much sexual pressure from me for the last 2.5 years.she has lost respect for me.she dosesn't want to come back to me ..she says she is over with me.her parents and my parents are trying.she is in a miserable state and is staying with her mother.she has lost all her bubbly nature.i want her back and want to be happy.she says even if she comes back she will treat me line a stranger.please help.i have changed and i am not sexually aggressive now.i love her a lot and miss her....

Love Guru answers, Did you ever force her to have sex with you? If you did, that's probably why she feels this way. You need to talk to her yourself. Meet her in person, take some flowers, get down on your knees and apologise for hurting her from the bottom of your heart. Tell her you love her and want to spend the rest of your life with her. Tell her love also means forgiveness and that you hope she will forgive you. See if that works.

Arun asked, We are recently married and morever there is no proper undesrtanding between us. After two months, she got pragnent and went her moms house. Both are from same place and same area. When i went to my place, she is not interested to come to my house. Beginning usally i will visit to her house. now i stopped to her house(becase girl should stay in husband house). Now there is no interaction between us. I called her parents to solve the issuse but they are not ready discuss with me. i didnt see my wife since more than a month. I called her many times come to my hosue. morever my mom is very disappointed now i completly lost interested in her and take to diverse. please let me know

Love Guru answers, What is the matter? Maybe she doesn't like living with your parents? In any case, go meet her parents and ask them what the problem is. Also tell them you're willing to do what it takes to make their daughter happy. Once you know what the problem is, you can tackle it. And it was foolish on both your parts to let her get pregnant so soon. For the sake of your unborn child at least, try to make this marriage work.

Anirudha asked, hi love guru.good afternoon. I am in a love with 1 girl who is already have an affair with another guy from last five year. When I proposed her she told me that she is in affair but if she would not have been in affair her boyfriend I would have been her boyfriend. Now she cares for me like a true friend and frankly speaking I can't forget her now. What should I do?

Love Guru answers, She loves someone else, apparently. So there's not much you can do about it -- you can ask her if she's attracted to you and if she is, why she won't leave her present boyfriend. See what she has to say.

ads asked, hello...lg........i hav asking this question from last 3times but never fgot the answer please anwer me this time.... sir i am in love with a gal for past 13years.....i proposed her few months back, but she says she has no feelings for me....d after that she is not talking to me....we were friends.....i donno what to do...plz help me out....

Love Guru answers, There is nothing you can do, my friend. You simply cannot force love. But you can tell her to remain friends -- she should stop acting like a child and be mature about this. Tell her that. Also tell her that you will overcome your feelings for her but would not like to lose a friend.

KUNAL asked, Hello Love Guru...I have recently married to NRI girl.I hv spent lot of money to make her happy.But sometimes due to her great demands...I get angry and so before marriage only we have heated arguments as result she does not have feelings for me.We did not even kiss nor make love to each other as she told me she is not comfortable doing without feelings which i obey her..Even after going to USA she neglect me and dont even bother to talk to me...I hv recnetly come to know that she is having an affair and her daring was such that he was with us when we went to Delhi...I hv told everything to her parents..but they are in fact blaming me...I just want divorce from her...but she is not ready to give it either...My married life is like hell..My marriage was on 3rd Jan 08 and still no love and happiness in my life...Please help me as what should I do........

Love Guru answers, Whether she is ready to divorce or not is not the problem here! You need to file for divorce and state that she was having an extramarital affair! Consult a lawyer. And it seems like you're still young, so don't take this to heart. In time you will meet and fall in love with the right person.

Lena asked, I'm involved with a married man, first he use to care alot for me but now NO. when I told him to say that he hates me he said & he says that i had asked him to say it thats the reason why he said it. I really dont know if he loves or hates me

Love Guru answers, Lena, let this be a lesson to you. Don't get involved with married men! They will have fun with you on the side, but at the end of the day they go home to their wives and families while you are left alone! Break this off now, before things get worse!

Avadhoot asked, Hi, I have come here in China for some company work and met a sweet chinese girl and we became friends. After 4-5 meetings, I proposed to her and she says she needs time to think but never said no, so what do i do now

Love Guru answers, Wait for her answer! But in the meanwhile you can still meet and hang out with her -- don't bring it up again till she does.

Punit Vakharia asked, hi, I married my long time girlfriend, we had our relation for almost 10 yrs, now we are married for 1.5 yrs, but now we have ego problems she doent like my parents etc, what should i do?

Love Guru answers, You need to zero in on the problem and eliminate it. If she does not get along with your parents, maybe you should consider moving out, just the two of you. Once she doesn't have to live with them, her relations with them will improve.

JD asked, Hi Luvguru, I am married to a girl I liked more for her simplicity. But now after marriage I found that she doesn't value traditional family system. And she is possessive about wht she thinks and wants others obey her as per her likings. Please tell me who shalli make her believe in family traditions and change her habits. Please guide

Love Guru answers, You can't change a person's beliefs and values. Stop beating around the bush and come out and say it -- she isn't happy living with your family! And she won't be happy till you stop forcing your values on her. If you want to save your marriage, I would suggest you move out. At the same time, explain to her that things in life won't always go her way and she should learn to compromise.