Are your partner and you headed for a split?

In a chat with Love Guru on April 24, Get Ahead readers solved many matters of the heart. For those of you who missed it, here's the transcript.

Love Guru says, Hello all you young lovers! Whether you're suffering from heartbreak or trapped in a difficult relationship, Love Guru is here to help solve all your problems!

priya asked, hi loveguru , i have married with my boyfriend one yr. ago . as due to our professional reason we were working in different city but in vacation/holiday we spent time together . now my hubby is one lady colleague , both of them working together , now he is more possesive for her , he cares for him like any thing , he share our personal life to her also. she is not married till the time . now we both ( my hubby & myself) are together , but still he cares him like anything . even i told him that i donot like this plz leave all this but he is not doing only giving assurance i will leave but still continuing as usual . now u suggest me what to do ?

Love Guru answers, Priya, is it possible that maybe you're overreacting? If a man is having an affair he's unlikely to let his wife know what he is up to -- in this case, he's told you about her. That being said, you can explain to him that while you trust him and his good intentions towards her, you don't trust her and that your instinct tells you she is in love with him. Also, it is inappropriate for him to discuss what happens between the two of you with her as it makes you uncomfortable. It is his duty as a husband to respect your wishes.

Helas asked, Hi Guru,I'm in love with a gal in my next door.She gave a good company by sighting me from her doorstep and it continued for more than one year.Suddenly for the last couple of months she starts ignoring me and escape from the doorstep whenever she saw me.I dont know for what reason it's happening but one thing is sure i'm in love with her.

Love Guru answers, You cannot be in love without knowing a person! So you traded looks from the door from time to time, but what do you know about her? If the two of you have been speaking all this time, it's a different matter. In that case, call out to her or call her on the telephone and ask what's wrong.

imran asked, hi luv guru i chatting with a girl since from 2 years she is from banglore and iam from hyd after that we start talking on phones i used to call her dialy and she aslo called me problem is that iam little bit confused we ask her to come infrot of web cam she refuses and wen i tell h er to send her photos again she refuses and one time i asked her that i want to meet her and i told her that iam coming to banglore to meet her she told me to come there wen i went there i called her she told me that she will meet me at 3 pm wen the time come comes she send me sms by telling that her hes died just now

Love Guru answers, Her who died just now? No, she's making excuses, probably because she is insecure of her looks and feels that if you find her unattractive you will stop talking to her. You need to convince her that you're attracted to her personality and not her physical appearance. Tell her you refuse to take this relationship any further till you see her face to face.

sks asked,  hi, I luv a girl, she also loves me.i have revealed many times also for marriage, but she also changes the topic. she had come across bad phase few months back & only i know about that as she told me & she says she doesnt want any sort of sympathy. she really loves me & i too. Plz guide me

Love Guru answers, Give her some time...wait a year or so and don't keep broaching the subject of marriage when you know she's not ready for it.

jasmeet asked, i like some one but she avoid me why ?

Love Guru answers, Because she doesn't feel the same way about you, my dear. You can't force someone to like you. Accept it and move on.

sun asked, lov guru... i luv a gul....but that gul's mother is always looking at me......eventhough she is in 30's, i liked her too....what can i do....

Love Guru answers, Last week, a very distraught young girl told me she came home one day to find her fiance and mother in bed together. She has sunk into a depression and was having suicidal thoughts, even though none of it was her fault -- her relationship with not only the boy, but with her mother, is hanging by a thread. Just to satisfy your lust, don't play with your girlfriend's heart. Stay away from her mother and treat her as you would your mother-in-law.

bhupesh asked, hi Love guru I am in relationship with a girl from last 6 year, we loved each other a lot and supported each other in every condition. LAst year we decided o go and talk to our parents regarding our marriage. but our parents opposed us and i told her that we will go for court marriage, initially she was ready but now she s saying that she can not marry me as my family members are not going to accept her and she do not want to listen comments from other and now a days she started fighting with me and even slaps me infront of other. i am confused now, whether she wants to marry me or not??? please help me out to save our relationship.

Love Guru answers, She has no right to slap you in public, whatever stress she may be under. Tell her straight that you've had enough of this nonsense, or she can just bail out of the relationship if she doesn't want to pursue it. Also, if your parents are against it but after marriage you want her to stay with them, that's a very foolish idea. In that case, she will be miserable and your marriage will be over before you even start it. If you want to marry her, find a place of your own to live, just the two of you.

Sanna asked, I like two boyes too much but one is my best friend & onther is my love so now what i have to do?

Love Guru answers, You have to do nothing. Your best friend will remain your best friend and your boyfriend will remain your boyfriend and both of them have to accept the other as a part of your life. Don't create complications where there aren't any.

pranesh asked, I want to be loved by elder heavy women? I feel very very attached with girls. When i see any aposit sex i want to be with her. I have agreat desire to be loved at any place. Now i am of 35 yrs old married. Tell me how to be a friend with a girl/women.

Love Guru answers, Make friends with your wife instead of eyeing every girl or woman you meet! You will be happy!