Rizwana asked, hi, i am 28...m n luv wd a guy..we are in touch tru phone but havent yet met each other..he knows my feelings towards him. He is also keen but he says he isnt too sure. Pls advice.

Love Guru answers, I don't blame him for not being too sure, he's never even met you! Meet up, become friends in person and then think of taking any decision!

showbiz asked, All love is evaporating. I am a married man for last 2 years and now I feel bit monotonous to spend time with my wife. We dont have anything to discuss except for homely matters. It seems all romance is lost. Please advise what can be done to rejuvenate this relation into romatic one.

Love Guru answers, You need to revive the lost spark in your relationship. Try going out for a romantic candle light dinner once in a while, bring her flowers or a small gift. Tell each other in words how much you mean to each other, talk about how you met and fell in love -- all these things will serve to rekindle your romance.

indian asked, i was having a 2years affair with a girl n she got married last year and as she was not able to seetle with his husband and getting divorce wants me back in her life also i cant marry her but cant live her also as i too love her but i to am getting married this year december so what i do continue or brekup also we cant be a good friends we are always more than it. what should i do and she also.

Love Guru answers, If you're still in love with each other and want to spend the rest of your lives with each other, just get married for heaven's sake! It wouldn't be fair to your fiance if you married her while you're in love with someone else.

rahulsinghh asked, hi.. i am 23 year old, i m having a relationship with girl age 19, we got physical a couple of time but now i dont want to get physical before getting married but she is not ready for it. i dont knw what to do ?

Love Guru answers, It's very awkward when two partners already have a physical relationship and then try to put a stop to it till marriage. It puts pressure on the relationship and your girlfriend is probably suffering from low self-esteem, thinking you're not attracted to her.

malik asked, hi i am a 26yr married. m happily married and we are expecting a baby this year. there is this best friend of mine she used to be my gf before marriage but she broke up for some one else. now we both are very close to each other. i want t have sex with her and i think she to but no one is ready to take the first step. is it appropriate for me to make the first move.

Love Guru answers, No, it's not. Your wife is pregnant with your child and you want to cheat on her? Shame on you, you're pathetic. And what's worse, you say you're happily married! So you would jeopardise your family's happiness just to satisfy your libido? Like I said, pathetic.

sanjayjrao25 asked, I was married to a women for 10 years and has a son from her. She betrayed me by forcing me into a divorce and took away every thing including my kid after having an affair with a guy and is now married to him.This had a tremeondoes imapct on my life. I had loved her more than my life. Even now I am fighting a slow court battle to get my son. What should I do?

Love Guru answers, I sympathise with your situation. But you need to keep fighting for your child, don't give up -- he needs his real father in his life, however long the process takes in court. And you need to move on, meet new people -- you can fall in love again, you know.

tserin asked, hi i have a fren who is in usa.. he is big flirt.. he is kinda guy who say i love u to verywomen he meets. when he was here he used to tell me that he love me but i dint belive him as he is flirty.. now its has been amlost year he still calls me n say that he love me.. do u think he realy does?

Love Guru answers, Why don't you ask him? Ask him if he means that he's in love with you, or whether he just likes saying 'I love you' to every woman he comes across.

Leena asked, Hello Sir, I am a 35 year old woman,single at present after a bad divorce 5 years ago on grounds of my husband cheating on me. I am in love with a married man and had expressed my desire be his companion. He rebuked me and refused my intention straight away. I respected his sentiments and appreciated the gentleman in him. But off late I know and it is the news of the office that he and his wife are going through a rough patch and his sex life has been zero. He maintains a cheerful disposition in the office,but off late he tends to sit back late in the office. He almost always the first to come to office. Should I broach the topic of me being in love with him and am willing to meet his sexual desires? He is not a handsome person, but a caring,warm,passionate person who brings warmth and cheer whereever he goes with his sense of humour. As a matter of fact, there is one more lady also in the office who finds him endearing.

Love Guru answers, You need to stay out of this. Where's your self-respect? He already refused you once. And even if he is going through a rough patch in his marriage, who's to say he doesn't love his wife and won't work things out with her? Don't you remember the anguish you must have felt when you found out your husband was cheating on you? And you still don't have a problem wrecking someone else's marriage? Find someone who isn't attached for yourself.

Love Guru says, I'm afraid time's run out, people! Catch you next week, same time, same place! Also, you can email me at mailtheloveguru@rediffmail.com, but please be patient as i receive tons of mail!