dick asked, iam 21 yr old i love my school freind but i dont know about her she is my good friend and i really like her if i tell my feeling so i think she break our freindship that s why iam not asking her

Love Guru answers, don't worry about it, dick. just talk to her. she's a good friend, she'll help you figure it out.

vats asked, I feel very alone.I'am 21 and my each friend have atleast one girl friend.I feel quit help less when i see them talking with their partners.I dont go college or any class.I do job at a place where there are no lady employees.When ever i come across an opposite sex i get very excited but not normal as i usually be.What should i do.A kind of Lonelly ness like this really sucks!!

Love Guru answers, I agree Vats, loneliness always sucks. Don't worry, all will happen in good time. Just because your friends have girlfriends doesn't mean you should have one too -- they're relationships, not motorbikes! :) Relax and take it easy, things will work out.

avinash asked, love guru i very upset for 25 days because no any contact my gril friend no phone calls. yesterday i call her by my friend. she saying to me my friend my father and mother every body know about our relationship so i call u after 2 or 3 weeks . so love guru she loves me or not ya otherwise any other boy enter her life. really i very upset. plz give me solution. really i very love

Love Guru answers, Hmmm...I think she is facing a problem at home because of your relationship. I know you must be upset and worried, but wait it out. Let her get back to you after this problem has died down in a couple of weeks and you can work on it together.

supriya asked, hi loveguru ,goodafternoon,i have serious problem ,i have affair since more than 6 yrs ,but nowdays my bf is fighting regularly for sily reasons (infact he is short temper)in small small fights he is asking me to break the relation ,we are talking hardly 7-8 days in month properly ,i don't want to break the relation ,i love him so much but he is not understading ,not giving me time ,talking very rudly ,please love guru ,please advise

Love Guru answers, supriya, sometimes we refuse to see that a relationship is over. it could be for any reason, but your boyfriend is making it clear that he doesn't want to be with you anymore. He's picking fights. You have to have a proper conversation with him and then stop denying the fact that he's uncomfortable, and that either of you can break the relationship off. Let it go.

Jay asked, Im into a relation for almost 7years with my GF. I met her parents twice during this period but they dont agree for our marriage. Im Maharashtrian & she is Malayalee. Her parents are old & we are very much concerned about them. Im 32 & she is 30. She wants to marry me but at the same time dont want to loose her parents. Her parents told me that if she marry's me then she has to forget them completely.

Love Guru answers, Hmmm, you seem to be in a tight spot -- and old people can be very hard to reason with. Maybe you can meet them again and talk to them -- say you're willing to do whatever it takes to obtain their blessing. Also, remind them that you have been with their daughter for 7 years and that your relationship is a mature, strong one that will last. If allt his fails, just get married and hope that in time they learn to accept you.

shabana asked, Luv guru..iam a lesbian,but difficult to get partners in india.Shall i shift to abroad

Love Guru answers, well shabana, there is actually quite a strong gay scene gaining ground in the Indian metros. Delhi, Bombay and Bangalore should provide you with enough opportunities and events: try checking the Gay listings in the local TimeOut magazines.

Guddu asked, Hey luv guru, i love one girl when i m at collage, we both hv good time together but due to some family prob we cant make our relations ship long , we both get married now but i cant forget her. we meet sometimes in some funciton but she never talk to me. tell me why she doesnt talk to me? i still love her

Love Guru answers, Maybe because you're both married! What's wrong with you? You have a wife and you talk of loving another woman! Imagine if your wife told you she was in love with another man. Forget about this college crush of yours and move on like a mature adult!

supriya asked, dear loveguru ,thanks for your reply ,can you tell me is it possible to break relation of 6 years ,he told me that he will get marry to me but it would be compramise because i had physical relation with him,secondly ,my parents also know about him and they decided to get marry next year ,so what should i do

Love Guru answers, dear supriya, I understand all your problems but you have to see that holding on to a damaged relationship is worse than all the personal and familial issues you will face. Already you are thinking of staying on simply because you've invested six years into it -- it doesn't mean you should waste six more years. Please take a stand and think of yourself, and how self-destructive this relationship is for you.

Raani asked, Im 26 and in love with a guy of 30. First month of our courtship was as usual very sweet. Then he started to find nooks in everything. He also used to chk my mails using my password which i gave him once when he asked me. He started picking fight from chats and other mails which my frnds used to sent me. But i never gave him the answer. Once he even told me that he doesnt respect me. Im very tensed now adays i dont want to loose him. But cant make up my mind to ask about our marriage although my frnds and family members are asking me to ask him abt that. he also talked abt marriage but since last two months the way he talks always upsets me. Wat to do?

Love Guru answers, Talk to him -- tell him that you love him and want to marry him, but at the same time he is being unreasonable and over possessive. Why can't you chat with and mail your friends? Tell him clearly that if this is the way married life with him is going to be, you'd rather back out of the relationship.

coolguy asked, hi..i an 29.i like a girl.but i dont knw if she feels the same for me.We have been good friends and whenever we talk we just talk as friends.she is in Pune. I would be going to US in March. I am confused if i should ask her out. I am not sure how 'to move ahead with the relationship if by chance she say 'yes'.

Love Guru answers, Ah, that tricky long-distance relationship. But while I understand your concern to 'move ahead,' shouldn't you take her opinion on it too? Maybe you're presuming too much. Talk to her and see. If she wants it too, then take it each day at a a time. by the way, long-distance relationships CAN work if you make the effort. Be strong.

cccc asked, hi... i think i do not have the word 'love' in my life... im 27, a successful engineer, not bad looking, but still single... HELP!

Love Guru answers, go look for it, man! sometimes you have to hunt for it instead of waiting for it to find you.

bhavesh asked, im 27 year guy from gujarat. i got married (arranged)last year. things were not smooth from beginning and she left our house and went to her father's home one early morning. she is innocent at the heart but sometimes acts like a real wimp. our divorce is final and my question is, should i get married again? how my soulmate would be?

Love Guru answers, Why not get married again? But there's no need to rush into it. Start dating women, learn to be a friend first and then move on to a relationship. You'll know your soulmate when you meet a girl who you want to spend the rest of your life with.

Love Guru says, That's it for today, folks! If I was unable to answer your question, write to me at mailtheloveguru@rediffmail.com and I'll get back to you as soon as possible. Till next week, take care and God bless!