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In a chat with readers on January 18, Love Guru addressed all kinds of love problems. For those of you who missed it, here's the transcript.

Love Guru says, Greetings, lovers! Love Guru is now ready to answer all your questions!

KP Rao asked, I am a married guy.... I hav a lover... she is also married, during love...I made her nude...she loved me deeply, but during love making ... she refused. I left her as she desired. I M RIGHT OR NOT ?

Love Guru answers,  No, of course you are not 'right'. Please choose between your wife and your lover.

Naresh asked, when i prapose a girl she reply .... i hate you. why?

Love Guru answers, That's mean of her, but if she is a stranger to you I'm not surprised. Girls don't like unwanted attention. If on the other hand she's your friend, she is being rather rude. Tell her that you don't mind if she says no and that you will remain her friend if she wants it that way. But also let her know that this is not the way to behave with a friend -- she could have siad no in a nicer way.

HARI asked, I LOVES A GIRL FOR MORE THAN A YEAR. NOW I DON'T KNOW SHE IS SKIPPING ME SERIOUSLY. WHAT I CAN I DO TO RETRIEVE HER ?

Love Guru answers, could you give me more detail on the problem please, Hari? What do you mean 'skipping'?

priya asked, recently iamin touch with a guy who is younger, urges to he physical realationship,still my marriage is not settled, i hve interest to talk but not to involve, he is not involed befre with anyone and me too.

Love Guru answers, well, his being younger definitely shouldn't be a problem. If you are both attracted to each other, go for it! Of course, if you want to take it slowly, that's totally your decision -- but let him know you are heading in that direction eventually.

ramana.swathi asked, my d.o.t of birth is 31-08-1989. i loved one girl can i marry her yar her name is swathi her date of birth is july12-1990

Love Guru answers, Darling, I give advice, I'm not an astrologer! You need to consult one if you want replies to a question like yours...

akki asked, i sent 1 mail to u long back in your id but u didn't respond pls give your reply na

Love Guru answers, Hi Akki...I receive tons of mail, so sometimes it takes a while to respond. Do not worry, I will reply soon.

wow asked, Hi Love guru.. I love a gal and probably she too. But hasn't spoken to her on this matter. My parents are pressing for marriage with someone they like. I want to settle the matter with the one I like. If she agrees then i want to marry her. The one I love is 5 years younger and from different cast.. what should i do...

Love Guru answers, The age difference doesn't matter and nor will the caste difference if you both have sensible parents. Talk to the girl before you start worrying about your family and hers, though -- she should want to go ahead with it!

Pari asked, Hi! I fell in love last year with a guy whom I met online. But he rejected me upon meeting. I still havnt been able heal.I wnat to know if I will ever find love on life. I dont want an arranged marriage, but if it happens will it be by my choice. My dob is 9-10-78 and time is around 11:30.

Love Guru answers, Hi Pari. Listen, just because one online thing went sour for you doesn't mean you should keep feeling bad. If he's mean enough to reject you after meeting you, he isn't worth it. Move on.

Abhishek asked, Mai 1 acchi gf ki talash mai hu agar koi girl mujhe apna dost banana chahti hai to please contect me my cell my cell no.is 9893154259 but wo larki bhopal ki ho to aur bhi accha hoga love guru please help me mujhe 1 gf dhoodne mai madad karo na please maine abhi tak kisi larki ko apni gf nahi banaya kyunki mujhe mere kaam se time nahi milta hai but ab mai banana chahta hu.Plaease help me out.

Love Guru answers, Abhishek, how do I get you a girlfriend, dear? You have to make friends with girls and only if you develop feelings for her can you take things forward. If you are looking for an arrangement, you should refer to the matrimonials.

Abhinav asked, i am an 18 year old guy...my prob is that, i ve never been successful with gals....i ve had 3-4 gfs so far...n all of them left me after spending some time with me...each one giving some or the other excuse...though frm my part i ensured that, i always had time for them....y is this happening? was it only attraction? if yes..then when can i expect to come across a mature n responsible gal, who doesnt play with emotions? at what age? pls answer me....i feel rejected n low due to this..

Love Guru answers, Abhinav, stop blaming yourself. Relationships have their own lifespans, and those particular 3-4 fizzled out for their own reasons. A serious relationship will come to you in its own time, just have faith and take things one step at a time -- don't expect each girl to be The One.

qwer asked, I'm in love with my own sister. I want to marry her. Is it right or wrong?

Love Guru answers, Does she love you too? You do realise your families will go through extreme trauma at a decision like this. And there are possibilities of genetic disorders with your kids if you mix bloodlines like this. Ask yourself: is it really worth all this?

Azhagiyatamilkudimagan asked, Hi, My lovelife is a topsy turvy. Which love is best? Love after marriage? Marriage after Love?

Love Guru answers, It depends from person to person -- some arranged marriages work out well, some love marriages fail and vice versa. Whatever your situation, you have to want to make things work -- remember, marriage is not a lifetime of happiness, it is a lifetime of compromise, which leads to happiness.