1218 asked, Hey luv guru, I was in luv witha girl & we were doing great.....she went abroad for her studies & she fell for someone there. she told me everything...i forgivr her & decided to marry her....but still she was in touch with him....i decided to leave her so she came back from abroad & left everything for me...she wants me to forgive her...what u say...

Love Guru answers, well I think she is showing extreme commitment by coming back to you. it takes guts to admit ones mistakes but if she wants to be with you now, you should decide if you trust her. I suggest give her another chance, she's left her world to be with you :)

sal asked, Hi LG,I have been writing mails and asking u this severeal times hope u will respond today… I am 28yr old divorcy,I met someone at my work place.I started liking him and told him everything,then i realised that he didnt have same feelings for me(which initially he pretended to have).Then,i decided that we would just be friends if he is not keen on taking things forward.He didnt disclose to me that he was engaged to his girlfriend and he still tried to flirt with me.Please suggest should i talk to him or does he deserve to be a friend who is just trying to play with my feelings PLZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZ reply

Love Guru answers, No he does not deserve to be your friend -- he deceived you and tried to play with your feelings, my dear. I know it will be difficult working in the same office, but it's not impossible. Just cut him out of your life.

Rahul asked, I have just lost the love of my life, the only girl i love in my whole left with me , could you tell we what should I do? I live abroad and I found out yesterday that she got married 2 months back and she haven't told me. Just 15 days before her marriage every think was fine, we spoke and have normal talk and she didn't mention anything serous and I don't know what to do know? could you please tell me why this has to happen with me?

Love Guru answers, Rahul, the truth is that she's been extremely callous and insensitive towards your feelings. The best thing to do is to stay completely away from her. Give yourself the space to get over that relationship. Don't worry, you'll find someone else.

atanu asked, hi, my DOB-12/10/84..n Birth Place - Delhi. I like a girl who met i accidently and our friendship grew well. she showed as if she likes me..but may be i mis-interpret it and proposed her.But i think i cant stay without her..and finding it difficult to convince her. what i found she is confused, once say YES..later say NO.Can you tell..what shall i do to convince her..to have a happy future.i like her a lot and tried out all things which i can do..except luck!!

Love Guru answers, Atanu, I'm not an astrologer but I can give you advice. If she is confused, there must be a reason behind it. Sit her down and ask her to be honest with you about what is going on in her life. Assure her that no matter what she tells you, you will remain her friend, if that's the way she wants it. You will get to know why she is so indecisive.

ankit asked, i was in love with one girl named Rinkal . i had proposed her but at that time she was with her freind so she denies and smiling at me . but i have 100% confident that she wanna to say yes to me . when she passes away to my society she looked at my house . so what should i do further ? please breif me .

Love Guru answers, well go and talk to her, ankit!

shilpa asked, I LOVE MY BOY FRND WITH LIMITATION BUT HE LOVES ME MORE THAN THE LIMIT FOR WHICH IAM NOT SO MUCH COMFORTABLE, WHAT TO DO....

Love Guru answers, Can you please be more specific? When you say his love makes you uncomfortable, is it because he's forcing you to get physical, or is he over possessive of you? Neither of the two is a good thing -- you need to put your foot down about how you feel.

Nisha asked, hi....m 29 yrs old and for the past year I have been dating a man who i met on a chat site and is 37 yrs and apparently unmarried. However, in the last few weeks I have received anonymous messages by email warning me that this man is married....how do i find out the truth? I confronted him but ofcourse he denied! He has company accomodation and lives alone there.

Love Guru answers, Nisha, it all depends on how much you trust this man. If you have been dating him for a year, then you should give him the benefit of the doubt. If you still feel suspicious after a few months, spend time with his friends and try to find out the truth.

smartgal asked, loosing weight make my bosom loose,so i feel very bad ,don,t wanna marry,because i feel boy don,t like it ,i get deppressed due to this.wht to do ,i can,t go for surgery as i am smaal town gal

Love Guru answers, My dear, that's hardly a reason to be so depressed! If you feel so bad about it, there's a lot you can do -- exercise, for instance! If you keep up with a tough physical routine everyday, in time you will find your body hardening up -- this will help with your problem. And remember, anybody who loves you will love you for the person you are, not for the way you look or the body you have.

aaysha asked, hi, my problem is that i am in love with a guy who is nt from my cast. love marriges r nt allowed in my family, in his family no problem. after 3 yrs i am planning to get marreid , i have tried every possibb;le way to convence my parents. but no use. can you suggest something. one more thing i cant run away, n cant leave him also.thanks

Love Guru answers, well I think you are the one who has to decide. if his family is okay with it, I suggest you go for it and then, given time, your family will understand and soften as well. But right now you are being unfair to the guy by refusing to decide.

minakshi adhlakha asked, Hi Love Guru iam in love with 45 year old aunty and iam only 27 will it be ok if we get into relationship

Love Guru answers, No, it won't. It's common for a young guy to have a crush on an older woman, but usually it's just that -- a crush, which will die down over time.

jitenderkumar14@rediffmail.com asked, hi LG, i love my school mate. our affair continued for 6 years. she also loved me. but when i completed my engineering degree, i was struggling for good job for 6 months. during this 6 months she never callled me. now i got the job in abroad. then she say she love me and want to marry me.i also have some feeling for her but this 6 month no talking make me feel bad about her. what shoud i do? i also love her.

Love Guru answers, Hi Jitender. Listen, in the larger scheme of things, you'll both completely forget about these six months. Really, don't let something like this get in the way of a solid relationship.

SD asked, Hi i am loving a girl but she is not ready marry me or not ready to leave me so i dont know why. she go on telling me you gain weight and good body shape like heros than only she can marry me so advise what to do. but my parents are fed up with me. bye sameer

Love Guru answers, ASk this girl whether she wants a warm, loving person who cares about her or simply a guy that looks good! She seems to be a very shallow person. Tell her people get married when they are in love, not when they want a mannequin on their arm.