sudi asked, Hi..We are in love from the past 5 years and love each other a lot,now we both want to get physical will this affect uor relationship and is it fine if we get physical please do suggest.....

Love Guru answers, Hey Sudi. Don't worry about it. If you are both indeed serious about each other and convinced you want to 'get physical', it'll be just fine. :)

sashi asked, HI Love guru ...i love a girl ...but because of misunderstandings we fought and didn't talk for a year ...but now she is having 2 - 3 boyfriends but still show me that she love me and she need me ...what should i do ?

Love Guru answers, Hi sashi. Well, you need to communicate directly with her and confront her with the situation. She has to choose between her wild single life and a relationship with you. If you want to get back together, you will both have to make a serious commitment.

hiren asked, My wife had physcial relationship with my brother. I warned them and then after they have stopped meeting each other. But still I feel they have some feelings for each other. These feelings are disturbing me very much. Myy condition is like that if I divose my wife....my brother'sily and my son both will affected and if I don't divorse her then probably I will be mad.....pl., suggest me something.....I can't share this with anybody....

Love Guru answers, Oh, my gosh -- I really feel for you, Hiren. But your warning them is of no consequence -- being your brother and your wife, they should have stopped themselves out of love for you. Since they didn't and you are trapped in an unhappy marriage, I would suggest you opt for a divorce. If, on the other hand, your wife regrets what happened and wants to make your marriage work, you may consider trying the same. The decision is up to you. And as far as your son is concerned, believe me, it's better for him that the two of you divorce rather than have him caught in the midst of a miserable family life.

Pabs asked, Hello, My woman always makes fun of me in humourous ways, but thats in front of my friends, I feel embarassed, but i love her and dont want to loose her, Please tell me a way how i can tell her that i Hate it.

Love Guru answers, Pabs, you just need to be honest. Explain to her that while you realise that she's just doing this for a laugh, she needs to be sensitive to your needs. I'm sure she'll understand -- but you also try to realise that it's all in good humour.

Azhagiyatamilkudimagan asked, I always feel comfortable while talking to married woman. But I haven't tried a physcial relationship with them? I want a physcial relationship with a married woman and above my age? what do u suggest? Is it not a harm what I think?

Love Guru answers, Why on earth don't you think this is harmful??? There are so many people's emotions at stake in a situation like you're suggesting. Why don't you find a nice single woman -- older, if that's what you like, but single?

CD asked, Hi..... i think i like a girl... we were arch rivals before but not it has blossomed into a friendship... i feel, she passes to some hints that she likes me, but i m not sure.... I dont have the courage to ask her whether she likes me or not... Kindly advice... Thanks in advance.

Love Guru answers, They say the first sign of love is hate, haha! See, a girl will usually never admit she likes you, so you need to step up and be the man here -- talk to her about it and find out for yourself. Don't be scared -- what's the worst that can happen? She'll just say no!

Anurag asked, I have forgotten the meaning of love the moment my first love got separated , In these big cities love seems to be a joke , i really can t understand .

Love Guru answers, Anurag, don't be disillusioned. Love hides in the strangest places.. don't give up hope.

joilie asked, i am 20 year old i love a married man age 31, with one daughter. he aslo loves me. i am in love with him since i was his student (8since i was 8 ) pls help. how do i go further ???

Love Guru answers, well, if he indeed loves you then he needs to take a decision choosing between his family and you. please take care and don't let him carry on with both lives. that's just going to prolong your frustration and increase your pain.

shilpa asked, IAM STILL 17 AND I HAVE A BOY FRND, HE WANT US TO DO SEX BEFORE THE MARRIAGE HOW CAN STOP HIM, PLS ADVICE.........

Love Guru answers, If you are not comfortable with having sex, Shilpa, just say a firm 'no'! You are still very young and having sex so early on is not a good idea. Explain that to your boyfriend -- if he truly loves you, he will put it off for a bit and understand where you're coming from.

dino asked, Dear love guru there is a gal who i like a lot..i already made a mistake of confessing my like for her too sonn ..initally she was having fun but now she is not showing interest...anywya i have decided ntot o call her anymore or tlak to her anymore.. can u tell me ..whts gonna happen ...

Love Guru answers, Dino, there's nothing wrong with confessing your feelings. Right now it's wise to adopt a wait-and-watch policy.

joilie asked, he is ready to divorce his wife, but she don't. what do i do ???

Love Guru answers, these are excuses. if he's serious, he can get a divorce and manage a settlement with her. stand your ground.

Abhinav asked, hey Love guru, i would like to know if online dating through chatting is really worth all the hype? I mean...is it really possible?? I mean, I have gone into chatrooms and chatted with a few gals there....but it seems like the gals who come there harbour a preconceived notion that guys are looking only for dirty chat, and hence they look upon every guy with suspicion...advise me..how to meet a gal online, and develop friendship?

Love Guru answers, Why are you so interested in chatting with gals online? If you want to date, it's always a good idea to get to know someone in person. Unfortunately, there are a lot of perverts out there, so girls are naturally suspicious of strange men they meet on the Internet.