SUMANA asked, GURU MY DOB IS 15/05 . I LOVE A PERSON, BORN ON 02/02 .WILL THIS TAURUS AQUARIAN RELATION GO TO GETHER?

Love Guru answers, I am not an astrologer, my dear, I only give advice! And personal compatibility is the key to any relationship, not starsign compatibility! I know several astrologically matched couples who can't get along at all because of personal differences!

Payal asked, Hi LG! I am 19 and in love with a 38 yr old guy. We are serious about the relationship but now then he forces me to have sex with him which I cant comply before marriage. Now, I have a fear that he will dump me. Please advice. What should I do?

Love Guru answers, Don't give in! You're too young to be in such a serious relationship, especially with such an older man! He's old enough to be your father and it's clear he is taking advantage of you because of your age! And aside from the age factor, any boy who dumps you for not having sex with him is not in love with you -- he's just using you for his own gains! I would suggest you dump him and pursue a cute, young boy around your own age!

RAJESH asked, HELLO.. THIS IS RAJESH. I will like to if having sex regularly will increase the love and affection between Husband and wife..

Love Guru answers, Sex is an important part of a relationship but it's not everything. If you try to stick to a timetable, in fact, it will have the opposite effect -- instead of being fun and spontaneous, it will become a tiresome chore! I'm not saying don't have sex regularly, just don't plan it!

rahul121 asked, HI LG , In my old relationship i was cheated and double timed i am scared that it will happen again so i doubt my present gf even she is getting frstrated by my doubting nature wat to do

Love Guru answers, Well, I can tell you quite plainly that you will lose her if you don't curb your doubting nature! Every time you open your mouth to interrogate her, think of the end result -- losing your girlfriend. That will help you curb it. You have to realise that all girls are not the same -- your girl is with you because she loves you. And that's reason enough not to cheat on you.

beena asked, how can a girl know if a boy loves her and it is not just friendship. what are the signs of friendship turning to love and if the boy is not telling it.

Love Guru answers, If he calls you up several times a day, always looks forward to meeting you, compliments you on your appearance and prefers your company to a group of friends, he's interested!

Rajveer asked, Loveguru I have a problem, I love a girl and she is pretty good but she always tells me lies. I know she loves me but she also loves so many other boys. I day I caught her with another boy but I did not react so much. She thinks that I do not love her because Idont shout on her but the truth is that Ilove her but do not like to shout on her. Now yesterday I went to her office, picked her up and later she asked to go to the disc but I do notlike to go there so she called her friend up and went to disc. I dropped her at the disc. In the night she called me up and said Raj do youlove me I said yes then she told me that she loves me too. She is totally confused, she loves to go to disc have drinks but i do not like all these things. She told me so many times that she will quit all these things but slowly. Tell me what should i do?

Love Guru answers, It looks to me like this girl may love you, but she enjoys the company of her male friends too -- and as long as they are just friends, there is nothing wrong with that. The problem here, I think, is lack of common interests. She loves going to clubs and dancing and having fun and there's nothing wrong with that either, but you don't enjoy it. So she goes with other people. I think compromise is the answer here. You should go with her once in a while to the clubs and she should sacrifice going once in a while to spend time with you. There's no reason why either of you have to give up on something you like entirely, just for the sake of the opposite person.

foram asked, we hav luv-marriage & completed 1 year but because of my mother inlaw,only marriage is there & no luv.i m pregnant now & she poisioned ears of my hubby.wt should i do i cant be happy without my hubby.can u giv advise to my hubby

Love Guru answers, How can I give him advise, dear? You need to sit him down and tell him that you are unhappy. Also stress that you cannot live like this anymore and want to move out with him into another house. If he is a mamma's boy and refuses to listen, threaten to walk out on him. And be strong enough to do that if necessary.

KUMAR asked, LG, Please help me out. My problem is my wife and mother quarrel everytime and now for the past 10 months my mother is in my uncles house. My wife hates her to the core and any step the reconcile them is like adding fuel to the fire. Please give me a solution where I can keep both of them happy. Right now my mother is in Chennai and I am the only son. No sisters/brothers

Love Guru answers, It's very hard for two women to share the same household -- they both try to dominate it. What you should do is, sell off this house of yours and buy two smaller flats, one below the other or side-by-side. If your mother is living right next door to you she won't mind being alone. And your wife will have her own space so she won't be so aggressive. It will settle down eventually and you can continue to look after your mother.

mick asked, hi.iam 28 married with 1 daughter. my wife is very orthodox. she has sex with me only once in 2 months from 3yrs.there is same problem for my brother in laws wife. now she asked me to hav sex with her to satisfy each other.we both are happy with our partners but not sexualy. what to do/ could we hav sex/

Love Guru answers, I would suggest you both talk to your respective partners (not together, of course!) and say that there is no hard-and-fast law about how often couples should have sex! Tell your wife that she is putting a strain on your relationship with her because physical intimacy is a big part of love and she is refusing to enjoy it with you. Also stress that you are unhappy because of it.