Is it difficult to carry on in such a messy state of affairs?

In a chat with Get Ahead readers on February 28, Love Guru addressed these problems and more! For those of you who missed it, here's the transcript.

Love Guru says, Greetings, all you lovely people in love! Love Guru is now here to help you with your relationship worries!

Aajay asked, Hi LG, i m married person, and having an affair, but the girl with whom i am going around, i am not confident abt her Love, i think she does not love me she loves my money, but she is ready to do any thing for me. but still i dont trust her....i want to get out for this relation......what should i do..pl. suggest

Love Guru answers, Why are you having an affair if you're married in the first place, Aajay? Tell this girl that you want to be faithful to your wife because you are having a conscience problem -- although shamefully enough, that's really not the case! If she keeps pestering you, tell her kindly but firmly that it is over and she shouldn't try to contact you anymore -- eventually she will get the message!

nike222 asked, Hi LG i love 1 girl from my company.she also talks to me very freely & shares her problems with me she has a BF but he is very possesive he dont like her talking to other boys so she is fed up with her I want to propose her what should i do please give me solution shall i propose her & if yes how?

Love Guru answers, If you propose to her, you will only be validating her boyfriend's posseessive behaviour! Advise her as a friend to get out of this damaging relationship. Only once she is single, tell her how you feel about her. If you don't wait till then, your plan could backfire --she could tell her boyfriend about your feelings and he will make her cut off all contact with you!

world asked, HI LG MY GF'S BITHDAY IS IN NEXT MONTH she has rejected my proposal bcos her bro.is very streect but we talk to each other on cellwhat gift should i give her & please tell me if i sholud propose her again & in what way?

Love Guru answers, What has her brother got to do with this? It's not his life, it's hers! You could get her a gift from her favourite store -- clothing, a handbag, anything not overly personal, sinve technically you both are only friends. And maybe she's just using her brother as an excuse because she doesn't want to hurt your feelings? My advice is not to propose again so soon. Wait it out and see where this friendship of yours is headed first.

gajendra asked,  how i can propose to a strenger whom i kike

Love Guru answers, You can't -- nobody wants unwanted attention from a stranger. You have to get to know her -- ask a common friend to introduce you, or then smile at her when you see her or just say 'hello'. After a few times, if she responds, you can strike up a conversation and get to know her. After you become friends and decide that you have feelings for her only then can you tell her you have feelings for her!

ajit asked, Is it possible that girl can propose to boy? If possible then why it is not happen with me?

Love Guru answers, Very few girls directly approach a boy and tell him they like him! Most are uncomfortable with the idea.

axa asked, Hi. i love a girl very deeply so does she. The problem is that we belong to different religions. We have been in touch with each other for the last 2yrs and cannot live without each other.This is not just an attraction infactuation! We both also love our parents very much so we are not going to unite unless our parents approve. It will be a sure NO from them but then we just cant leave each other! Her parents have started looking for proposals for her...Please advice.

Love Guru answers, See, you can't go through your whole life making decisions that will please everyone. Both of you either have to take a stand against your parents, or then spend the rest of your lives with partners you don't love! The choice is yours.

raju asked, hi lg i am in love for two years i have a problem with my side my family side no problem problem is with her only my parent accept my love but she did'nt tell to her parents refused.i told her to will get marriage with out u r parents permission.she told with out my parents permssion i can't.please give a advice sir....

Love Guru answers, Talk to her parents directly. Tell them you love their daughter very much and want to spend the rest of your life with her. Assure them that you will take good care of her. See what they have to say about it.

monika asked, i am 26 yr married for 2 yrs, doing a job.problem is my hubby is very fond of my sister in law.when my hubby is very school going kid than my mother in law leave this world so she take cares of my husband like a kid.but afer married he always praises her.sometimes she also interfere in our life so much that i feel suffocated.sometime suspciuos that they have some kind of deep relationship more that devar bhabhi.she has 2 school going kid.i talk about this with my hubby but he says that just see him as his child.i appriacate what bhabhi did but now i think we have our life so she also understand this.i just want to leave all this.my husband hve good job i tell him to live separately, sometime he agrees some time he says it will hurt my bro and bhabhi.but i think this is the only solution of my problem.

Love Guru answers, If you think this is the only way out, put your foot down about it! tell your husband that while you respect his sister-in-law, she cannot be interfering in your lives and so long as you live together, it's clear that she will continue to do so. To avoid hurting them, just sit them down and say it's time for you both to be a little independent and that you will miss them. Also tell them that you will visit often and they should too. In fact, your relationship with your sister-in-law will improve once you don't have to share a house.