Shaker Jeddah asked, Hi, Love Guru I’m a Muslim, our religion allows to keep maximum four wives, I am financially and physically sound therefore I am looking for another girl / woman. What shall I do if I find anyone, shall I tell them true about my life to start any friendship with her or shall I keep confidential about my previous life and later on I have to explain?

Love Guru answers, Oh, what a tangled web we weave when we practice to deceive! Ever heard that? If you hide the fact that you are already married, don't for one second think that your second wife won't walk out on you! It's dishonest! And in my eyes, what you are doing is completely unfair! How would you like it if your first wife married again? It's just plain wrong.

Suresh asked, I am a gay and i am married b4 4 yr. and i have a 2 yr child. i am attrected to guys and mens. this is my main probs. what should i do? i always try to avoide to attrect to male. suggest me plz.

Love Guru answers, Why in the world did you get married? And have a child, on top of it all? You chose to keep up appearances instead of admitting who you are. Either keep this habit of ignoring your attraction to men for the rest of your life, or then come clean -- tell your wife about it.

qwerty asked, I have happily married for last 5 yrs. I love my wife very much. But usually while makign love with her, I takes other girls name for fantacy and sometime she gets upset because of this habbit of mine. Please advice.

Love Guru answers, I can imagine she'd be upset! Just stop doing it, what's the big problem here? And if you find it hard, tell her to take the names of other men while making love to you -- once you know how it feels, you'll be able to control your tongue!

rh asked, hi guru.. I am in a trouble. I have an online gal friend, whom i dont know personally. She is married woman. We started friendship accidently. Now it is becoming very close. She started teaching me about sex and all. And i am feeling guilty. But i am not able to avoid her. I scared if her husband comes to know. But she tells that he won't bother, talking in phone is just fun etc etc. What should i do?

Love Guru answers, Why can't you avoid her? In any case, she's just a bored housewife and is having fun with you on the phone. Stop this before it goes any further.

jassi asked, hi love guru this is jaswinder kaur, i asked u about my frd asking for lesbian relationship but u said its cheat to mine hubby.that what i told her but she is not getting it & had stopped speaking to me, but now i am in dilema, i dont want to loose her at any cost bcoz she is quite nice & other i dont want my hubby to be in dark so how do i go ahead? pls help me

Love Guru answers, Hi Jaswinder. Meet her and tell her to stop behaving like this. Tell her that you would like to remain friends and nothing more since you are not a lesbian and nor do you want to cheat on your husband -- it's unfair of her to try and force you into it. Also, explain that if she is so unhappy in her marriage because of her sexual orientation, she should come out of the closet and leave her husband. Assure her your support -- but strictly as a friend.

sanya asked, hi. please reply. I am in love with an army personnel from last 9 years. On valentine day, I told my parents tht i want to marry him. But the problem is that his background is very different from us. is parents are not properly educated, while mine are very well educated. Also there is difference in economic status also. How should i convince my parents. i am in tension because it is not possible for me to leave this relation after 9 years. My parents are threatening me tht they will die if i got married with him. PLEASE HELP ME

Love Guru answers, Tell them to stop this drama! What do they mean, they will die? If you are in love with this boy, go ahead with it -- but make sure that you will be able to adjust to living with his parents first. If not, make arrangements to live separately.

MR goel asked, Hi Sir My salary is less shld i marry with my girlfrnd her parents cant wait and i need time 1-2 yrs, shld i forget her and concentrate on my careear? pls advice

Love Guru answers, Why can't her parents wait? Is she 65 years old that they are in such a hurry to get her married? What you can do is get engaged formally and then wait for a couple of years before you get married. That is a solution that will keep them happy and will give you the time you need.

Samir asked, Hi LG.. I love a very close friend of mine, due to some misunderstanding in the past our relation didnt even get started n also our friendship was down in dumps. Now she has again suffered a break up, she is very depressed. The person she was going around with was my very good friend and he had broken my relation to build his. I still care for her and still love her.. I cant see her in pain.. How can i get her back? please some help.. What should i do?

Love Guru answers, Offer her your support. Explain that you know what happened to her and would like to be there as a friend. Don't start hitting on her when she has just suffered a painful break-up. Be a friend to her and when she is back on her feet, then you can approach her about how you feel.