janet asked, hey i want to know how do i tell my hubby and make him realise that i love and respect him even if i try to teach and make him learn certain things when i scold him for many things that he goes wrong with .........??????????

Love Guru answers, Tell him that, instead of telling me! Explain that you love and respect him and that when you scold him it's only because he's doing something you don't approve of. Also, my advice to you is don't scold -- tell him nicely and explain things instead of losing your temper. He's not a child to take your yelling at him constantly!

goda asked, whats the secret behind a satisfying sex life.i am busy in work and very stressed.so when i return home,i hv no energy left for sex.morning also, i have to rush and get ready for work.pls suggest a solution

Love Guru answers, There's always the weekend! Stay in with your partner and enjoy your spare time instead of cramming it into a busy week. There's no hard and fast rule about scheduling sex!

sohil asked, A girl is fall in love with me she is dying on me but the prob is that i am already married and she knows this fact but still she is interested wat i have to do now pls suggest

Love Guru answers, Say a very clear, very firm 'No'! It's not your problem, it's hers! You have a wife -- you only need to focus your attention on her!

SONY asked, I am trying to contact you for the 5 th time , but u r not replying to my queries, i am in love with lower class boy , but my family members are against us.my parents are okey with my decision. but family members creating lot of troubles to my parents. family members are not ready to accept this . now it become a huge problem.they are trying to keep away my parents , wat will i do? how can i help my parents????? I want immediate reply PLZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZ

Love Guru answers, Listen, Sony. If your parents have accepted it, to hell with the rest of your family! Tell your parents that you appreciate their support and tell them not to let others interfere in your lives! Tell your parents to cut off these bigoted family members from their lives or warn them to accept it if they don't want to spoil relations. You're better off without such narrow-minded fools anyway!

toddler asked, am in dilemna...have got good feelings about a girl who has been close to me and one of my bestbuddies..but...she had a bad experience...her hubby expired..now she feels lonely...and resorts to me for sharing of feelings....am interested in he but she has got a kid..and am totally confused that if i go ahead...my folks as well as her life will get fuzzy...advise

Love Guru answers, If your folks have any sense at all, they will not object to you marrying a widow with a young child. But you should be serious about such a responsibility. Are you ready to become a step-father to her child? Make sure of your own intentions and only then proceed. But don't let others tell you what is good for you -- you're the best judge of that.

reshma asked, after a long time of relationship with a boy i end knowing he is a gay and he wants me to mary him even i love him

Love Guru answers, Why does he want you to marry him? So that on the surface he is straight but he can continue with his sexual activities in secret? Don't even consider it -- you will end up hurting yourself. Understand that he can never love you the way you love him and try to get over it.

Janardhan asked, Hi, am married last year... but i had a girlfriend before marriage and she still loves me a lot. our relation is still thr and i also love my wife too muchi also love her a lot. will it affect this in my future?

Love Guru answers, Yes it will, if you don't stop this right now. When you got married, you made a choice -- now stick to it and to your committment to your wife.

paro asked, hi. I am 26 and i love this this guy who is 4 yrs older to me, i really loved him to the core of my heart. he doesnt give much importance to the relationship in the sence. he gives more importance to work and firends. only friends. every weekends he is only with firends. i started doubting him thinking is he really with firends or with someone else. coz he never used to keep time for me. now after 2.5 yrs of knowing him . he is going out with gals and chatting with many gals and i should leave him alone. i'm helpless coz i still love him till date and i really want him for my entire life

Love Guru answers, He's not intersted, darling. And the sooner you accept that and make a strong decision to move on with your life, the better for you. Even if you ended up marrying him, you would be unhappy, because he doesn't love you and would only take advantage of you. Let it go. You'll meet someone else.