Share asked, LG.. I need to know one thing. I am married and before my marriage I was going out with this beautiful girl who has awasome eyes. Anyways, I got married and ma pretty happy, but I keep meeting this girl and the only thing that makes me crazy for her is her eyes and the past. I go out with her as a friend but the think of having physical relations with her keeps poping in my head and I keep asking her stupid questions. I know that I should not be thinking about this girl as I am happily married. But I was wondering if I could may be get lucky?

Love Guru answers, Stop behaving like a fool. You always want what you can't have and because you're married and can't have this ex girlfriend of yours you want her even more. You're just building her up in your mind for no reason. She's just another normal person. But remember you have a wife who loves you and ask yourself what you would do if you found out she wanted to sleep with her ex boyfriend! That should stop you!

dinesh asked, Hi,I do love a pak. girl.she is know about this.But she is living in pak.wat can i do?

Love Guru answers, There's nothing wrong with that! If your parents are okay with it, pursue it -- if they are not, you can go ahead and get married anyway.

sangeeta asked, my husband is calling alady daily , do he have something as he says nothing is there

Love Guru answers, Calling a lady, as in? Can you explain yourself clearly, please?

VIKING asked, hey listen its a pretty tough situation for me. well me n my gf are prety far apart. i am too posessive about her,so ask her to stay away from the guys in her college. but as she is very childish she doesnot feel the essence of my advice. she mingles wid every guy as friends but all the guys take it otherwise n start flirting.when i come to know it i feel very bad. i wish i was wid her. i had spent only a few months wid her when she went to study away from me.there is no doubt about the love she has for me but she is never romantic or serious about our future as i too have got the parents pressure to handle regarding our relationship.what can i do, even after giving her all the freedom

Love Guru answers, What freedom are you giving her? You tell her your parents will be a problem in this relationship and she cannot have other male friends? You better make up your mind about what you want -- either commit to a future with her and stand up to your parents, or then break it off.

Arup asked, Hi Love guru... I met Ria in Orkut. After having a few chat sessions we decided to meet her on Sunday at 3 PM. She had neither send me photo nor gave her phone, but however she had seen my photo in Orkut. I stood there upto 3:45 pm but she did not turn up. On next day she had written scrap in Orkut blaming that I did not turn up. I tried to explain but she did not understand anything. I got confused whether any boy is trying to fool me or is she bluffing me. I gave my mobile and asked her to ring from outside booth. But that also she did not do. She quited and deleted her orkut profile putting all blames upon me... But I could not forget her.. I am in dielema if she was really girl and not bluffing me then have i done anything wrong to her... Wat should I do now... Please answer...

Love Guru answers, These are the hazards of online dating. In any case, whether someone has been playing the fool with you or Ria really exists, it's clear that either the joke is over, or she's not interested in you. So just forget about the whole thing.

SRao asked, i am going to get married by arranged one. My would be is interested to stay house wife. how can i convince her to assume working woman responsibilities in a big company?

Love Guru answers, Why are you trying to convince her to work? If you're financially settled there's no harm in her being a housewife. If, on the other hand, you have financial problems, explain to her that it would be advisable for her to work for a few years, at least till you save up some money and build some security.

stargold asked, I contacted a beautiful girl in one matrimonial website and proposed to marry her but i'm shocked to know that she rejected me. My birth date is 16.02.68 and her is 16.10.72. My question is will i be able to marry her or not. If not can you plz tell me whom i'll marry?

Love Guru answers, I am not an astrologer! And if she rejected you, don't pursue it -- look elsewhere, there are plenty of fish in the sea!

Don asked, My girlfriend doesn't allow me to sleep with her. Give me the solutions

Love Guru answers, There is no solution. Till she is comfortable enough to get physical with you, be understanding and don't try to pressure her. If you do, you'll damage your relationship.