Are you insecure of your partner?

In a chat with Get Ahead readers on February 21, Love Guru addressed these problems and more! For those of you who missed it, here's the transcript.

Love Guru says, Hi there, people! Love Guru here, ready to take all your questions!

Zahir asked, Hi Love Guru, I am 25 and my GF is 20 ,v both love each other a lot,but since this new year she is not the same as b4 , she doesnt talks to me as b4.when i confronted her she says that she is finding it difficult to go against her parents wish,but earlier she use to say that she will not marry any1 else except me.when i asked her to meet me she says she doesnt feel like meeting me. But she still insists that she loves me a lot and will talk to her parents but final decision will be of her parents abt her marrriage .My family is ready to accept her .But her sudden turnaround has put me in a fix. plz advice ?

Love Guru answers, Hmmm. It's not easy to go against your parents -- she must be anxious about it. Why don't your parents and you approach her family and do things the formal way? But tell her about it first -- that way, you'll be able to tell whether that is reallyt he problem that is bothering her, or if it's something else.

ok asked, When i am trying to love any lady her mother falls in love with me & also lady so pl. tell what can i do?? ( One new comer film actress mother also intrested on me).

Love Guru answers, What to do? Stop cosying up to the oldies, my friend! That's all! If you keep a respectful distance, you won't have such trouble!

smita asked, hi guru i am married women now i am in love with other married man who is younger to me can we continue our affire even though i love hubby very much

Love Guru answers, No, you can't -- unless you want to destroy your marriage and your lover's. Remain committed to your husband and end this nonsense.

ayoush asked, hi this is ayoush bikki here and i just want to ask abut my problem of love bz my frd like me verymuch but she is alredy commited smone and i have alredy told her abut my fellings but she is not teling me anything just keep quinte so tell me what i understand her side sir

Love Guru answers, Ask for an answer. Say that since she already knows how you feel about her, she should let you know how she feels. At least if you know she doesn't love you, you can move on in life.

ashok asked, hi i m 22 years i m in with my GF, i cant live without her. but she is more concentrated on carrer. i know it is imp but if i ll concentrate on job den her parents ll take advantage of my ignorance.if initialy i ll marry her and den think about carrer.ll it affect so much. plz guide me...

Love Guru answers, Manish, you can tell her parents and get engaged. But wait a couple of years before getting married -- in that time, get well-settled in your career.

Arif asked, Hey LG I got married 3 months back. My wife didnt want to marry as she had an affair.. But that guy didnt want to marry her and my wife didnt want to marry me...Noiw since 3 months my life is suffereing. We have been intimate only 3-4 times since marriage where its me only who is sexually active...she is just lied as a dead body...Being emotionally disturbed i have got a Erectile Dysfunction problem . i am too stressed.. What will be the future of my marriage? Kya sab theek hoga?

Love Guru answers, Why don't you talk to your wife honestly? If she didn't want to marry you, it's her parents who probably pressured her into it. And you should have known better than to marry someone by force. Tell her that if she gives you a chance to make her happy, you will. Also assure her that you don't want to force her to remain married to you and that if she wants to leave you, she should. There's no sense carrying on a sham of a committment like this.

Rucche asked, hi love guru,i m 30yrs old i met a guy meeting arranged by parents i did like him but he was too critical abt my every word.After that he did sms'd me a couple of times wd sme or d other work bt when i askd hm to meet me he said that he only wantd to b friends and l8r when i msgd hm a friendly gesture he didnt respond to dat.on new years i wished hm nd he too did.Shuld i wish him in holi??

Love Guru answers, No, don't. It's apparent that this guy isn't attracted to you. Just leave it at that -- if he was interested in being friends, he would have at least responded. And you say he was critical of everything you said -- why do you want to pursue even friendship with someone like that?

Dee asked, We got married last year and staying away from in laws and have no child. Ever since my borther has started living with me, I hv started feeling some kind of insecuirty and feel that a distance is coming between me and my husband. As soon as my bro comes home they both dont give me any importance and together they do evrything like playing game or watch TV. Myt be that im not used to of sharing my hubby's love with anyone. But this ignorance is creating anger in me and our fights have increased. I even got voilent last night and hurt him. Pls tell me wht shud I do? I feel angry all the time and its becoming my nature these days.

Love Guru answers, Look, he's probably happy to have some male company. Why are you reacting so violently to it? You should be glad that he's fond of your brother -- if he wasn't, it would be much worse. If you feel left out, tell him that and make an attempt to hang out with them too. Watch TV together or play games where all three of you can participate.