Dying asked, Hi LG, I know one girl from the last 3.5 yrs. We were just good friend till last 3 yrs. In the last few months we started loving each other. She always use to stay i dont know what will happen in future and she cannot go against her father's wish. But i always convinced her that her father will accept our love and i am always with her. But yesterday she said we are doing wrong and we should stop talking to each other and this relationship is of no use. I asked her what is the true reason that made u think like that in a day and suddenly without even talking to your parent u taking this decision. She is saying she can't go against her parent and thats all .. I am deeply hurted and can't do anything ... I am missing her and love her.sometimes i feel she has never loved me she just used me .. Is this feeling right ? LG what should i do now ? Plz help me LG.

Love Guru answers, Why don't you talk to her father? Ask her how she feels about that. Maybe these last few months were great for you, but your girlfriend realised she doesn't love you and wants to go back to being just friends. She could be saying this to spare your feelings. But tell her she owes you the truth. And when she tells you, take it gracefully.

kazama asked, hey LG! I've known a girl for several years but as a friend.SHe recently proposed to me.I've a lot of education left.I'm doing my masters and I wanna go for a phd.Apart from that I have no issue in accepting her proposal.If i do accept i probably wont be able to make justice to the relationship.What do you suggest?

Love Guru answers, Tell her that you want this relationship but that it will involve sacrifice on both your parts till you start working. If she's okay with that, you both can learn to compromise and get along. Love doesn't always happen at the moment in life when you're ready for it -- you have to learn to adjust.

ralph asked, hallo, m transexual n in love wit a girl. i have told her abt dis and she said no.m ok wit it coz of society n blah blah.... only thing i want from her is that i want her to respect my feelings for her and to understand me. is it ok frm my side and how to make her understand this???? thanks

Love Guru answers, Respect your feelings, as in? She said no, my dear. If she's your friend, she will understand -- if you've just approached someone you don't really know or who is just an acquaintance, you can't expect them to understand your feelings. And that has nothing to do with the fact that you're a transsexual -- nobody will entertain proposals from someone they barely know.

raju asked, i have made one good friend with a girl.she has boy friend but she share all her feelings with me.she tells her all problem to me.everyday we talk more.my question is if she has boyfriend than is it possible for me to make her my best friend?

Love Guru answers, Sure -- as long as you're not deliberately trying to cause trouble in her relationship with her boyfriend.

Hitesh asked, Hi, I love one of my friends very much. I have also told her and she also respects my feelings. But she says that she doesn't love me. She has no such feelings. She says she can only be my friend. We share our problems and all... I don't know what to do?? I can do anything for her.......

Love Guru answers, You have to learn how to accept a 'no' gracefully. You can't pressure someone into falling in love with you. Tomorrow if she gave in to the pressure and said yes also, at some point in life she may meet a man she really loves and leave you for him. That would be worse! Just remain friends and you try dating other girls.

Jacky asked, Hi Love Guru..I am a 27 year old guy and have never taken love srsly bcoz of studies and work. now i want to settle in life and looking for a good gal..but i am very choosy bcoz of which i am not able to finalise any gal.please guide. i am also not ready for intercaste.

Love Guru answers, Nobody is perfect. If you find someone attractive then go for it -- it's as simple as that. When attraction grows into love, you will learn to accept small faults in your partner.

tina asked,  Tina her from Punjab I was in relation with one boy since last 3yrs we love each other very much , we thought to get married, he spoke at his place .his parents are having no issue , even I spoke to my parents , they r not agreeing wit it as it is iintercasete marriage.the same thing I told him eventually his behavior , caring and love suddenly has slow down.. he was not showing much interested from then. After 4 months again I told him tht I will speak to my mom regarding our maariage , then he said tht is not going to help as I have aleady said yes to one girls , he got enaged and he did ntot even told me .. I was really blank when I heard all that …. I was really hurt by all these things which had happened, I had trusted him a lot , now I really want to forget him which I m not able to do pls help me with regard to it. As he is my office only , daily seeing him , is not able to forget him …..pls let me know wht should I do.

Love Guru answers, You probably said 'no' to him because of your parents and he thought you would not marry him. Do you feel like he still loves you? If so, you both should stop these childish games and have a serious talk. Email him and tell him how you feel. If he did this to you because you said no, it was only a rebound. If he was still carrying on with you and went and got engaged behind your back, he's a creep -- in which case you should consider yourself lucky that you were saved from someone like that!

vishal asked, Hi Lg, I am married but i am not satisified with my married life. Some time back my cousine stayed at my house around 3 months. During that time no feelings comes but when she left my house i don't know how and when i start feeling love. Now she calls me some time but she is calling me and also asked to call at night. But she never say that she loves me. I just wanted to know the same thing from her friend, but i have not received any information from her. My cousine got this information that i called her friend regarding whether she loves me or not. Now she is agreed with me and tell me how can i know whether she loves me or not. But my cousine told me that she loves someone else but this month the person who loves goint marry some other.

Love Guru answers, What is wrong with you? You are simply not considering your wife in all of this. Stop figuring out how to have relations with your cousin and work on your marriage instead! How would you feel if your wife did to you what you're doing to her right now?

jaswinder asked, hi, love guru, this third time i am asking you this question & i expect you will answer this time at least: mine hus is working in sales & am quite friendly with my neibhours wife she is also of mine age i.e 38 & quite often she comes in for sleep in mine room but now she had asked for physical relation between me & her is it good to have lesbian love pls help me out love guru?

Love Guru answers, It's not a question of whether lesbian love is 'good' or not -- the question is are you a lesbian? Your neighbour's wife seems to be. If you love your husband, you should abstain from cheating on him with anyone, whether man or woman.