anil.police asked, hi sir how to avoid my Gf can u pls suggest me, she want to marry me . but she is a christian i am hindu relegion. my parents do n't agree the intercaste marriage what to do now iam also looking for refuse her.pls give an advice sir TX.

Love Guru answers, So why did you lead her on if you knew your parents have such narrow-minded views? Tell her the truth -- that they don't agree and you don't have the guts to go against them for the sake of love. Be honest -- you owe her at least that much after leading her on for so long. I have no respect for you!

rajsoh asked, Hi Love Guru.Having an extra marital affair since last seven years.We both are happily married but unable to quit this relation.What's your take on this !

Love Guru answers, My take on this is that you are both incredibly selfish -- you have your cake and want to eat it too! If your wife isn't a priority to you, tell her the truth and set her free -- and if she is, be a man and cut this affair short for her sake!

vinny asked, m marrid n bt luv sme 1 else...nw my wife is pegnent..bt i have told the other one due to which she has ended our relation..i dont wnt to loose her..pls advise

Love Guru answers, Don't you have any shame? Your wife's health is vulnerable right now, you have a child on the way and you're still running after your lover? If you love her so much, why didn't you marry her? Or did you put your guts on the back burner to agree to whatever your parents said and act like this behind your wife's back? I feel sorry for your wife that she ended up with someone like you!

Hanumant asked, Hi~! love guru....I have a strong crush over a girl since 8 months.....She talks to me very nicely n we share each other's problem everyday. I dont know dat now further how to approach her.... I like her a lot!!!

Love Guru answers, See, women often don't like to be the first one to make a move, even if they like a guy. In this case, my friend, you'll just have to be brave and go ahead -- tell her! But don't come on too strong saying you're madly in love and would give your life for her and all that. Just tell her yo've developed feelings for her and ask how she feels about that. If she chooses to remain friends, respect her wishes.

neelam asked, hi i am 47 yr old woman and my husband is 53 old.healthwise me and my hubby very active except of minor problems.3 chirldren.one daughter married and have a small baby,second daughteris in college,my son is in school.my problem is after the marriage of my daughter my hubby is very much interested in s*** and he becomes very romantic and passionate..he wants daily.he becomes very demanding and try to do some new things in s***but i am little hesitate due to growimg child .what they think about us after they know it all.me and my hubby love and care about each other a lot but it is ok for doing s*** in old age when the children are growing.i don,t want they think about something bad about there parents.plz give some nice advice .

Love Guru answers, You have nothing to be ashamed of! Why, you should consider yourself lucky that your husband still loves and finds you physically attractive after so many years of marriage! And how will your grandchildren know what goes on in the privacy of your own bedroom? You just need to be discreet around them. Congratulations on such a successful married life!

coolkukks_1986@rediffmail.com asked, hi love guru. I loved a boy extremely. but now he is married to someone else. he also loved me. but now he doesn't want to even look at me. What should I do? His behaviour extremely hurts me.

Love Guru answers, He's married, my dear. Move on instead of wallowing in misery. I know it's hard, but if you put your mind to it, you can. Talk to friends about it if it helps -- it's therapeutic and you'll earn their sympathy and support through this difficult time.

Raman asked, Hi LG, i m in relation with a girl,we both are working in Gurgaon.we both wanna marry but her MOM doesn't supporting us, bcoz she is saying that i m Aggarwal and they are the Guptas. and also she is saying that i m not stable yet, it will take time for me to get stable in life, but they cant wait. Her MOM had met me 1 month ago, at that time she is saying they are OK with me, but now she is again doing the same. Now my Mom and Dad are coming to see her, but her Mom forcing her to not to met with my parents. Even if she is not talking to her, her mom kept on spying her by her brother who is working in Gurgaon also. one thing more i wanna add, that her brother has an Intercast relation, for which her parents got agree, thts bcoz only of my GF, but now her brother is singing in her parents tune. Plz suggest wt shuld we do????

Love Guru answers, Tell your parents to talk to her mother directly, instead of with your girlfriend. And if she keeps behaving in such a manner, just go ahead and get married anyway, if you're of legal age -- there's nothing she can do about it!

Deep asked, Hi Love Guru. i m married for last 1 year. though we love each other, and we support each other in everything, my wife doesnt have much interest in sex. we do sex once a week. I feel that by not having physical activities in young age like now, we waste time. I dont force my wife to do sex, because i dont want to hurt her. please tell me how to convey my feelings to her.

Love Guru answers, Deep, you can just talk to her gently and ask what the problem is. Talk honestly and try to sort it out. Also, she may not be interested because you're selfish in bed and don't tend to her needs. Pay more attention to her and try to please her. Maybe she'll change her mind about it.

khan asked, hi !! First of all hats of to your program on radio. my problem is I happended to meet women who is married but not staying with husband. we had nearly 8-10 months relationship and even I too married. Now she is moving with other mens and ignoring me !! pl. advise how to forget her for-ever from my memories and life. Thanks

Love Guru answers, That's easy -- focus on your wife instead of cheating on her!