Love Guru answers, Women sometimes take awhile after having a child to regain their sex drive. Do something romantic for her -- take her for a candle light dinner, watch a romantic movie together, just spend an evening in each other's company without the responsibility of the baby around. Have your parents or in-laws look after him/ her. Things will fall into place.

Ritesh asked, Hey LoveGuru... M in Dilema abt the relationship with my college time GF...We had very good understanding but Family was against the relationship culminating to Marriage... I got married abt 2 yrs ago n v were totally outto touch, but one day we met accidently.. since we have our office in same compound, we startd meeting very often... Now she is asking me to merry her though she knows that I am married... I also sometimes feel guilty abt not been able to convince my parents abt her 4 years ago... this always plays on top of my mind and m not able to concentrate on anything... pls help...

Love Guru answers, ritesh, what is your existing marriage like? please don't get misled by the possibility of a relationship that was only alive in the past. nostalgia isn't reason enough to jeopardise your life.

JACK333_4U asked, What to do in Love Traingle case?

Love Guru answers, The weakest side of the triangle falls away -- or should give up and let the other two be happy!

priesh asked, Hey Love Guru pls reply fast yaar. i m loving 1 girl frm last 4 years and i know she also loves me but she is not expressing, and she don`t wann to be in touch with me becs she wantto fulfill her parents dream and she don`t wann to heart me that`s y she is in no touch. what do i do ?? i love her so much and i cant live without her ? just tell me kya karu last 1 yr se not proper contact or last 6 months se maney use dekha tak nahi....fast

Love Guru answers, priesh, there isn't much you can do if she has consciously made up her mind to end the relationship. you can try pursuing her but if she's avoiding contact so strongly there is no point in foolish hope. buck up, accept that the relationship is over, and move on.

amit4u asked, LG, i was in love with my cousin. Her dad refused our marriage and without my knowledge she got married other guy. I waited for her for long 10 years and I too got married. Once she saw me and my wife ina marriage party, and somehow got my Mobile No and started talking to me. LG, is it better to continue relationship with her or not.... what u suggest

Love Guru answers, No, there is no point. There once was a relationship but there's no point rekindling it especially now that you both are married. There are too many equations involved. Just leave her and continue with your married life.

lali asked, Hi Love Guru i am being frastrated. I have got married 2 years back. My wife doesn't do makup and not being modern. She is very educated and working leadyto. But she is not so fair. I want to see her looking good. But she never care of her face and her body. What shoudl i do.?

Love Guru answers, Okay, I'm guessing everytime you must be telling her to wear different clothes or makeup she must be feeling hurt and thinking you don't find her attractive. Instead, try complimenting her on things she does -- like if she wears lipstick once, tell her how lovely she looks in it. Buy her a few modern clothes and when she does happen to wear them, tell her how beautifully they suit her. in a more subtle manner, you will be able to get her to pay attention to her appearance. Every time she feels like something appeals to you, she will use it more.

amit_richest asked, love guru i am trying to get u since 2 weeks,plz reply me.i am 27 yrs boy n i am in love with a gal of 23 yrs.sometimes i feel i am in love with child,becoz of age difrence.what shud i do continue or break up.plzzz reply

Love Guru answers, don't be silly, amit. 4 years is hardly an age difference given your current ages. go on with the relationship and don't let these thoughts enter your head -- unless you're uncomfortable being with her.

hittly asked, how long should one look after parents? iam married and my parents health is bad. should i take them to me. will my husband like this as he will have to take them to hospital every now and then. if he allows also, how long should they stay?

Love Guru answers, Listen, you don't need your husband's permission to love and serve your parents! If your house is too small, maybe you can have them sell their own house and buy them one close-by to you. If you think they should move in with you, have them move in with you. It's not a question of whether your husband 'allows' it or not. They're your parents and it's his duty to look after them just as much as he looks after his own!

Dheeraj asked, Hello Sir, How are you?? Well sir the problem with me is , when i look any girl... i always feel like sex... with her... i am not consentrating on my work also!!!1 please tell me what to do... i am looking porn sites and reading sex stories online.... witthout doing any work.... what should i do sir?? im trying hard... but all in vain!!!!! :(

Love Guru answers, dheeraj, calm down. how old are you? I assume this is happening to you simply because you haven't had sex yet. Find a nice girl and enter a relationship, and then you'll be satisfied. Meanwhile, stop blaming yourself for these feelings.

chari asked, Good Noon Love Guru, i m in love wid n Sikh boy. n I m a hindu gal.His parents are disagreed in intercast love marriage, but my parents hav no problem. His parents are being very rude in thid matter n searching a sikh gal for him. what can we do??

Love Guru answers, Well now the ball is purely in his court, Chari. If he is really committed to the relationship, he won't let the family friction stand in the way. Either way, even if marriages have a troubled start, time soothes everything.

pravin_007 asked, Hi LoveGuru, Good afternoon. When I was studying engineering I was in love with a girl who is 8 year younger than me. After getting job I have stayed at a very distant place. So our connection was mainly in phone. Though when we used to visit the native place we used to roam around together. Our relationship was very close and even engaged in physical. All my family members and her family members are aware about the relationship and we were very close to marriage ceremony. Now after 3 years she suddenly broke the relationship. She is telling that she is in love with other guy in her engineering college. I have waited 1 year. But she is telling not wait for her. I love her very much. What should I do? I am in a bit doubt about her love as she has decorated her house with all my love memnto even now. But still she is telling that she does not love me.

Love Guru answers, You need to meet her in person and demand the truth from her. Tell her that the least she can do is tell you the truth, given that you were together for so long. See what she has to say and then decide what to do. But you will have to meet her in person if you want honesty from her.

Love Guru says, Okay, people -- that's it for today! You can write to me at mailtheloveguru@rediffmail.com if I haven't been able to answer you. See you next week!