Love Guru answers, Well Ganesh you need to ask the girl to make up her mind. She's the one who's confusd, not you.

lovingman asked, my girlfriend claims that she doesnt love me when I proposed but since then she has started exposing a lot when im around? she wants to come to my house alone this weekend? she doesnt want anybody else to accompany us. But she still claims that she doesnt love me? what should i do?

Love Guru answers, I don't see what you're complaining about ;) It seems clear that your girlfriend isn't interested in a long-term serious relationship but is sending you all the signals for a physical fling. Now it's up to you whether you go for it or now.

aditi asked, do you go on dates also? i might want to ask you out after this..

Love Guru answers, aditi, I'm sure you can get any man you want in the chatroom. Good luck.

pavan asked, Hello Love Guru.My girl friend and i have been together for almost three years now.We were together for few months and then both of them got shifted to other places for job..we still spoke regularly and met once ina while..everything is good but there times when i dont understand her at all..at times she talks as if she is not sure of this relationship and at times totally opposite..its becoming difficult for me to keep up with her mood..i dont know why does she still have these thoughts and why is she so uncertain about everything

Love Guru answers, Long distance relationships can be hard. Go meet her in person and frankly ask her what's going on. It may be possible that she is attracted to someone else who lives in her town and is tired of a long-distance arrangement. Talk gently and ask if this is the problem. Sort it out between yourselves, bot not over the phone or computer. Do it in person.

khushi_friend18 asked, hi, i loved a guy. who left me for another lady. but till date we r in touch. and somehow he tried to restart all that. i had given him chances for 2-3 times but always found that he is much loyal towards that lady. its being very difficult to forget him. and even i cant continue with him coz i dont want to ditch my self. plz help me out how to come out of this. its spoiling my career,relation with my parents and all my life. plzzzzz suggest me something.

Love Guru answers, hi khushi, that guy is obviously not interested enough in you to let go of the other lady. he needs to take a stand, and he needs to know he can't use you like his doormat!

jags asked, Hi Love Guru....good afternoon...greetings... I am married...no children. my colleague is in deep love and mad of me...she is not listening to me what is say...she knows that i am married...but still she says that she wanna live with me only and only with me...she is not bothered about being second wife to me itseems....and these things are not known by my wife...i am cofortable and happy with my married life...and also told her that i am not loving her...but she is very stringent on her decision...what should i do ...and how do i convince her for no marriage without disturbing my life....and she says that she is even ready to sleep with me...which i am not ready...

Love Guru answers, Listen -- have you ever heard of the word 'no'? Are you nuts, or what? Tell this psycho that you want nothing to do with her -- that you love your wife and are happy with your marriage! And that you will never put your relationship with your wife in jeopardy! Be firm -- are you a man or a mouse, that you can't get one unwanted girl off your back!

samrocky asked, hi LG i very much impress of u r answer, recently i meet with one of close cousin & he got married. I meet his wife she very good looking and dashing. Slowly we talk toghther & we are very close to each other when i propose her but she refused to me so what i have to do she said to me she dont wants to break my friendship with me and she dint stay also one day without talk to me what its mean's she also me or just friendship with me...

Love Guru answers, this is a very dangerous path you are treading. it's all very well for you to be friends with her but please dont' ruin things between her and your cousin -- or create a family feud because of your affair.

ashley asked, I expect my Fiancee to call me every 1-2 hrs while she is at work.at times she is busy and cannot call,I feel bad.i want to get over this but find it difficult.please help me.

Love Guru answers, Are you five years old that you need constant attention? Stop behaving like a child! She is working hard and cannot call -- it's very reasonable! Tell yourself that you should behave like a mature adult and make sure it happens!

ashishshilpa asked, Dear Love guru, I have some problems with my freyancie. My marriage is going to be held after 20 days. The problem is that my wife doesn't think about our future. She is a kind of girl who believes in present only. She doesn't thing about even her future. What she will do? What we should do to make our life lovable? She doesn't know and doesn't want to know. She said me that when we will live together, than we can understand to each other and can think about the future. Otherwise not. Well, I know that she loves me but she doesn't know to express her feelings. Thatswhy, I have lost my many of the feelings due to her ignorance. What should I do?

Love Guru answers, Don't worry, take things as they come. She's got her own point of view, and everyone doesn't need to feel the same way about future planning. You say you know she loves you. Well, that's all that matters :)

noname asked, Hi LG, Two years back I met my sister's roommate. She is 21 and I am 33. Initially, since she was with my sister, she also used to treat me like my brother and I used to treat her like my sister. Somewhere down the line we started developing feelings for each other and now we love each other deeply. Both our families are pretty close to each other. But we used to behave before everybody like brother and sister, though privately, we were behaving like boyfriend/girlfriend. Now we are very scared that if we go to our parents to discuss marriage, as both sides are under the impression that we are like brother and sister. Her sister and my sister are also saying this is a bad idea and to drop it. We are scared that this will destroy the relationships between the two families. We are thinking of not to press ahead for marriage. Have we taken the right decision?

Love Guru answers, If you love each other deeply, don't worry about what the rest of the world will think. You aren't really brother and sister, and there is nothing wrong with your falling in love. The parents might be initially upset, but it's all right. See if you both are willing to go for it, and then take the step. Good luck!

boss asked, I have great facination about women like 28 to 45 years old those who wear sarri and nity. My age is 22 but about young I dont have any facination. What should I do?

Love Guru answers, It won't really be a problem unless you fall for someone more than 15 years older than you or so. Liking elder women isn't that big a deal -- but try to focus on those who are just 4-5 years older, instead of aunties!

JSD asked, HI Love Guru, I have been going around with a girl for last 4 to 5 years and been trying to get married for last two years. Unfortunately, there has been many problems in this regard and recently there was a fight between the families. The girl was stressed out for the last year becuase of too much of pressure and because of this family fight, suddenly she has decided that she will not marry me. She is very upset now and doesnt even want to talk to me. Its been a month now and her anger is still not down. Whats the way out ????

Love Guru answers, Well JSD you can't push her. Try writing to her and explain your point of view, or just ask her what has brought about this change. Tell her to talk to you, at least, to tell you why it's over.