Is your partner taking advantage of you?

Get Ahead's Love Guru has the solution to all your relationship anxieties!

In a chat with readers on January 31, Love Guru addressed all kinds of love problems. For those of you who missed it, here's the transcript.

Love Guru says, Hello lovers. Let's talk about relationships, romance and the lack of both. Let's talk about loove.

devil asked, Hi LG, my Love marriage is nearly in broken state as he came to know about my previous affair before marriage. I have asked him maafi and after that everything seems to go normal, but whenever a fight break between us he uses abusive language -- like prostitute-- I love him very much but unable to accept these words.. what to do????

Love Guru answers, You tell him straight that you have never done anything to damage your relationship with him and he has no right to talk to you that way! This is not the 16th century -- everyone has relationships and they don't always culminate in marriage! Tell him plainly that you will not tolerate this abuse and will walk out on him if he dares to try it again!

priya asked, Hiiii luvguru!!! sorry for disturbing u...but the question is really important for my life...although i m gud looking girl but than i don't have any bf,,,but i was in luv with a guy who never liked me...no one luves me...really feeling very guilty when i saw average looking girl with a handsome boy...

Love Guru answers, Looks have nothing to do with relationships, my dear. You will eventually meet someone who loves you for the person you are and not for your looks. Don't worry.

ARUN asked, LOV GURU I AM FALLING IN LOVE WITH A GIRL NAMED PRIYANKA BUT SHE DON'T LOVE BECAUSE SHE LIKE AN ANOTHER BOY BUT SHE DONT KNOW ABOUT HIM THAT THAT BOY IS A CHEATER WHAT WILL I DO FOR HER GOOD FUTURE TELL ME PLZ

Love Guru answers, Arun, don't interfere in another relationship. Let them figure things out on their own.

santha asked, plse help me i love a girl actually the things started like this ,about 3months before i noticed a girl of my organisation is looking at me and she also introduced herself from her side to me after that on few occasion we have discussion about her work and also her family finally i got trapped in the love as my job is very demanding one i can not find out time to talk to her. one day i contacted her over her official phone very next day she banged me not to call her over office phone,then i wrote a sorry letter over her email id but noreply yet.but the major thing is she still looking at me like anything and iam unable to concentrate plse help me

Love Guru answers, well, santha, don't worry too much. she seems to be a little angry now but give her some time to cool off. if all is well then she'll contact you herself, don't lose too much sleep over it. good job writing the apologetic email, but don't blame yourself -- it's not your fault.

Payal asked, Hi LG, Pls help me! I am 19 yr old and i am mad about my neighbour who is 34 yrs, he is rich, cool and a nice guy. I am scared, how to approach and confess my love? please advice.

Love Guru answers, He is 15 years older than you. You're still a teenager and he's 34! I think you just have a crush on this elder guy. More importantly, do you think he considers you a potential girlfriend? Only if he seems attracted to you too would I advise you to take this thing further.

kavitha asked, i am liking one guy.But that guy likes osme other gal But now i feel like i can't loose him what should i do now

Love Guru answers, kavitha, just be honest with the guy. even if he likes someone else, he deserves to know your feelings so that he can make up his mind.

ravi asked, iam 37 years old and having 2 chaild i have friendship with my coluge and that converted into love she also married now we have changed the offices now we are in different offices but we are in touch now she is having 1 chaid still iam thinking about her more i don't whether she is thinking about me are not but when we are in near she shown much interest on me and by seeing that i to changed i fallen in love with her. but now she is not comming on to phone even i call to her home i don't no whether she is same as she at the first or not but still iam thinking about her. advice me

Love Guru answers, Listen, you have two kids, she has one and you're both married! This is a very unhealthy dalliance. Don't pursue it -- instead, focus on your own relationship with your wife and renew the spark. Learn to love her and treasure your own family.

vijay asked, Respected Sir, I am in love with one girl She is cute slim Fair n attractive woh kehte hai na PEHLI NAZAR MEIN PYAAR HO GAYA same as me Mujhe pyaar ho gaya morning 9:30 she goes to job n evening 7:30 she come back i always wait both the time to she her she also looks but now i want to meet her n proposed for my Girlfriend with pure heart or everything goes well i cam marry her too please advice .... 1. Shall i go to Bus stand n talk to her about this matter or go to her work place(bus stand) n chat with her. 2. what to do advice please which way n how please Thanks & regards

Love Guru answers, Vijju, don't think too hard about it, and do just what you feel like. You can go to either bus-stand, but I'd suggest you don't go to the one near her office because there is a possibility she might feel uncomfortable in front of her colleagues.

rishitosh asked, i am 27 yr old, and i love a girl whose name is niki.She is presently in tokyo. She also loves me but the problem is her mother. she is not allowing her to talk to me and when i said to her that i will talk to your mother, her mother don't want to talk to me. and now a days due to her mother pressure she is not even replying to my mails also. i don't know how to manage this situation. and i miss her badly in my life. help me to get thru this.

Love Guru answers, Look, tell this girl that if she truly loves you, she should fight for this relationship. Moreover, you go ahead and talk to her mother anyway -- explain your intentions and ask her why she is objecting to her daughter's interaction with you.

rajesh asked, i like a gal , she stays indelhi and iam at mumbai, i know her sice past 4 yrs but never felt that i have some attraction for her? burt during this days after i started chating with her , we knew eachother better.but i don't know whether she also like me or not???, how to find it out???

Love Guru answers, speak to her till you find out. and if you know each other this well, just explain your feelings to her honestly and ask her for a direct reaction. don't assume anything.

AMRITA asked, IAM MARRIED FROM LAST 8 MONTHS. ITS A LUV MARRAIGE. I LIKE MY HUBBY. BUT HE LOVES ME MORE. I JUST WANT TO KNOW THAT HOU WILL BE MY MARRIE LIFE

Love Guru answers, You're lucky he loves you so much -- I think you'll have a happy married life with a devoted partner. Learn to appreciate how much he treasures you and enjoy your relationship.

Roshan asked, hi there.. well there s this problem .. am very bad at approaching the gal i luv .. may a times i tot of telling her and let her know .. but i fear thinking of the outcome .. what if its negative or wt if she has no such feleing for me ... its been like this for ... brleive me 3 yrs or more now ... i cant seem to tell her .. but i know one thing .. i ve seen many other gals after her .. but somethin tells me tat she s the one for me

Love Guru answers, roshan, stop torturing yourself. there is no point in wondering what could go wrong. and what's the worst thing that could happen? relax, take a deep breath, and tell her.