Love Guru answers, bhoomika, life is all about hope. be optimistic, love will find you.

Preeti asked, Hi, I got a proposal from a guy who was interested in his colleague.When he asked that girl to marry him she turned down his proposal may be due to different caste. Now the guy wants to marry me and has confessed his affair. However i came to know that girl still calls him on cell and his parents and according to his parents they are good friends. I don't understand what to do??? Please suggest. I guess they may have stayed together too.

Love Guru answers, Talk to him honestly. Ask him whether he still loves her and she him. If that is the case, I'd say bow out of this relationship. If not, tell him that it makes you uncomfortable that he is still close friends with her. He should minimise contact with her, at least for awhile, until your relationship with him is secure.

Vinod asked, How can i convey to my wife after 7 years of marriage that my love is as fresh as the day I married her??

Love Guru answers, :) do something really special for her. plan a romantic getaway vacation, full of everything she likes. sweep her right off her feet!

Ria asked, I luv A guy named sanjeev so much but there is this guy prakul who luvs me like hell... n i dont know wat to do as i dont wanna hurt prakul as he is a gud frnd nor can i live widout sanjeev

Love Guru answers, See, you can't plan your life around people who love you -- you should spend your life with one who you love truly and who loves you back. Tell Prakul that you don't want to hurt his feelings and will remain his friend, but that you can't have more to do with him becuase you don't love him. Also say you're in love with Sanjeev.

entreprenuer asked, please start a 2 yr ladki patao training centre..something on the lines of american pick up artist ..

Love Guru answers, well, you're the entrepreneur, write to me with a business plan :D

shyam asked, shyam dear sir i am having friendship with one lady she is very nice eith me she fallowsollmy orders and always keeps me inform as to what is going on she travels with me her body language says she lovesme people also talk obout us and we both are awar of this but she naver admited that she loves me currently i changed my job and she also joining to new office how shouls i take it how should i go further pl adv my emailid shyam125@rediffmail.com

Love Guru answers, Stop beating around the bush and tell her how you feel! Women are rarely comfortable expressing their feelings first -- they consider that a man's job, so go ahead and do that. She'll respond.

anandm asked, i am in love with a girl. I kind of had avoided her and made her feel bad. If i have to patch up and make her forget the bad memories, how to do it

Love Guru answers, Talk. Tell her you screwed up and you're sorry -- that you thoroughly regret what you did. Ask for forgiveness -- love means forgiveness, so most likely she will forgive you.

hoodibaba_1983 asked, Hi , Me Ram from Ahmedabad , I am in love iwth a girl , her age is 19 and mine is 30 . sp there is a big diffrence of almost 11 years .. she is very beautiful and she is expecte the offer from me .. but she is like kid infront of me .. I am married also and have two kids , i am very much satisfied with my wife .. so waht can u suggest me , whether i should go forward for affair ?

Love Guru answers, Ram, an affair isn't any kind of a solution. You will be wracked with guilt for cheating on your wife, and your girlfriend will want more from you than just a fling. be a man and take a decision, and stick to it.

shafal_w asked, Hi Guru, Its difficult time for me I can’t imagine why my love so caring towards her friend(female), even she disrespect my words in sake of her we had lot of arguments before but still she cares her more than me??

Love Guru answers, Listen, girls have best friends. And ideally, you should learn to get along with those best friends instead of getting jealous and competing for attention. Stop trying to force your views on your girlfriend and make a real effort to like this friend. Who knows, you may start getting along really well.

rajeshnaidu_rajesh@yahoo.co.in asked, ihai i loved a girl where she has got married with the other person but now tge problem is she is not able to stay with him because she cant forget me what shall i do now plz help me

Love Guru answers, rajesh, if really does love you then she will have to leave her husband. is she prepared for that kind of commitment?

azhar asked, hi love..i am felling very awakward to ask this question....i get married last month and have stays only 6 days with my wife..during that period i was unable to have proper sex ,,,i fell i dont have much hardness in my male organ....due to which i am very tense.....kindly give me soome proper solutions

Love Guru answers, azhar, please contact a professional sexologist. and be positive, things will get better.

sat asked, I am married since last 12 years. I think my close friend loves my wife who is married too. He always try to get i contact with my wife. Pl tel me what to do?

Love Guru answers, Does your wife seem to respond to him in a way that makes you uncomfortable? If not, I think you are needlessly worried. In any case, I would suggest that you have a talk with your wife -- tell her you get this feeling and also ask her to discourage him subtly, in any way she can.