rina asked, Hi I am rina... My bf always get close to any gal... how to control him?

Love Guru answers, He's not a dog, Rina, that you can put on a leash! Why do you want a man who keeps showing interest in other women? Unless you're overly possessive and are over-reacting here, I'd suggest you dump him. Or you'll find yourself running after him for the rest of your life!

murli asked, Hi LG! good after noon. I have a very difficult problem. I love a girl called shital but she loves my friend amar. Amar's says he loves another girl called kiran. Kiran is happens to my cousin sister. She has a good relation with Amar's sister mala and tells me that mala realy loves me. I have never seen her as my lover as I always treated her as my syster. my friend amar also ask me to help him to get kiran.So i am bit confused what to do. should i go for shital or mala? please help me.

Love Guru answers, What a confusing equation! Okay, Murli, first off, you need to realise that you should be with a person who you love and who loves you back. If Kiran likes Amar as much as he likes her, they'll make a good couple. And if you like Shital, don't settle for Mala just because Mala likes you. Try for the person who you're attraced to -- and the same goes for Amar, Kiran, Shital and Mala!

GK asked, Hi LG, I have been in a relationship with a girl for more than 3 years..I have seen many ups and downs in our relationships mainly due to the beahaviour shown by her parents towards the concern of doing love marriage..if she feels that our marriage is possible she behaves the best but if not then the worst..We do not have anything to talk on phone so we both get tired of calling each other and then just hang for a long time without saying to each other and just pushing one another to speak something..We both want to listen good things but do not have as such to say so..We enjoyed talking when we used to talk about sex but it has also ended..pls suggest what things in a conversation can make the things good for both of us as i want to maintain that temptation of our love forever..

Love Guru answers, Stop talking on the phone. It's not a compulsion to call! Even the most lovey-dovey couples run out of conversation at some point in the relationship. You need to spend time together in person, socially. And is there any future to this relationship, if you say your girl behaves well or badly depending upon her parents' reaction?

siddharth asked, i am in love with a girl who is in my class mate..i felt she is the only girl whom i have seen is can be my best pair..i dont want to loose her..mean while i have even proposed her...but she refused me telling tat she already have one guy...but still i want her ...plz tell me how i can make her love me..........

Love Guru answers, You cannot make her love you. You can't make anybody fall for you -- either they do or they don't. And she's in a relationship -- her boyfriend and she both have feelings for each other and are together. So don't try to break up someone else's happy union.

ravi asked, Hi LG, I m ravi age 24 i hv a good friend from last 10 years his sister like me too much we met daily she share every thing with me which is happening in her life, she never ask me bhai but she tell bhai to our other friend, if i cant talk to her she will upset whole day i cant understand the relation between us what is all this

Love Guru answers, Ravi, I think your friend's sister has a crush on you. And it looks like you like her too. So why not talk things out and get together? I'd suggest having a chat with her brother first, since he's a good friend of yours. And he will appreciate you telling him before doing anything.

Kumar asked, I am married and have sonof 14 years. Now my wife is not interested in keeping my mother along with us. I have no brothers or sisters. She insists that she be sent to a Old Age Home. Her complaint is that my mother is always grumbling and finding fault with her? Please help me to solve this problem.

Love Guru answers, Kumar, I think your wife has a very hard-hearted approach towards your mother. So she's aged and hard to get along with. Aren't most old folk that way? Did your mother put you in an orphanage when she had to look after you? So how can you think of putting her in a home now when you have to look after her? If your wife is finding it impossible to get along with the old lady, sell the house you have and buy two smaller ones side by side somewhere. That way your mum will be right next door and you can look after her, but your wife will not grumble since she's not living with her.

NYATI asked, HI, SOME TIME I FEEL LOVER LOVE ME, BUT SOME TIME I FEEL HE, NOT, HE NEVER CALL ME OR HE IS NOT TAKE INITIATIVE TO MEET ME, EVEN HE HAS NO TIME TO TALK TO ME, MAY BE HE HAS SOME PROBLEM BUT HE NEVER SHARE WITH ME, HOW I HANDLE ALL THIS , HE IS SHORT TEMPER, PLS. HELP ME,THIS MAKE ME WELL MISREBALE

Love Guru answers, You seem to be involved with a very self-centered guy who's taking you for granted. I would suggest walking out on him. Seriously. If he realises how much he loves you, he'll come back and mend his ways. But don't keep your hopes up, because he sounds quite involved in his own life, too much to care about someone else.

jnanankur asked, hi,my problem is i lose interest in a girl after 6 months of affair.till date this has happpened to me thrice.people has started calling me a playboy but i didnt have any physical relation with any of them.but still after 6 months of relationship i get bored of the relationship.its not that i get attracted to any other girl but the love for that girl dies..then after the relationship ends i feel like having an affair with some other girl..this is happening for the last 5 years.please tell me is there any problem with me only??

Love Guru answers, Attraction is different from love. You haven't been with anyone you love yet, it's just infatuation you act on and then get bored. Stop falling into relationships with every girl you're attracted to. Wait for the right person to come along.