Shankar asked, Hi LG, please advice me what should i do. i am married and a kid of 5months old. i had a GF before marriage and relation with her continued after the marriage also. i introduced her to my wife so that i should not get any problems in future. but when she was pregnent and she went to her native we both started meeting together again. i was caught by my wife when we were speaking on phone till 11.30night. my wife started getting doubt in our relation. she askd me not to meet her any time and i also said i will not do but i still continued here and slept also. now she is back and somehow she got it tht we both went for a movie now again fight has started. Now she is telling i wont believe u. Please help me what should i do.

Love Guru answers, Why should your wife believe you? You're a liar and a cheat. Do you think you deserve to be trusted? Shankar, you need to realise that marriage is a serious commitment, not a convenient arrangement that allows you to sleep with ex girlfriends and cheat on your wife and little son. Break it off. Now. And be a faithful husband.

priya asked, hi actually i love this guy but hez gettin married soon.n i have to attend his weddin becaused pf some family terms...i donno how i would handle the situation n i dont want to be weak due to my emotions

Love Guru answers, I can understand that you'd rather not attend the wedding, my dear. If you think it will be too much for you to handle emotionally, avoid it. Don't go. Pretend to be ill at the last minute and stay home.

Aasheesh asked, Hi ! My wife does not have sex with me for last 2 years .Should i divorce her ?What do i do ?

Love Guru answers, You need couples' counselling. Visit a counsellor who will help both of you. Lack of sex doesn't necessarily mean that you should file for divorce, try to rectify the problem first. Emotional problems may be behind your wife's refusal to get into bed with you.

BABAG asked, how i propose a girl who is my class met in my college(mba)..she is very smart, and blunt,,, she alwyas be with me in college and outside whike we roam but when i giv any indication about my feelings she talk rudely ,, but she dont want to lose me,, once i was stopped talking to her and she started crying ,,, tell me LG what to do?

Love Guru answers, Tell her to stop acting like a child -- a mature adult is able to discuss things without being rude and then crying. Ask her whether she has feelings for you or not. If she says she'd rather be friends, respect her decision and don't bring up your feelings again.

Rena asked, hi i m married for 10 yrs and now suddenly i found a frnd whom i started loving? is loving him right?

Love Guru answers, Whether it's right or wrong depends upon the circumstances. If you have an unhappy marriage and turned elsewhere, you should file for divorce. But if you've been happy so far and just suddenly are attracted to someone else, it's only because boredom has crept into your marriage. In that case, I would suggest working on your relationship with your own husband instead of seeking excitement elsewhere.

looser asked, i love a girl but feel nervous whenever she is in front of me . I talk to many girls very openly without any problem but as soon as she comes I feel as my heart started pumping faster .She knows that i like her i talked to her on phone and on messenger . She use to give a sweet smile whenever i am in front of her but then also i feel very nervous . My friends told me to meet her , infact her frnd also told the same thing.what should i do?

Love Guru answers, Prove you're not a loser! Come on, I challenge you to be friendly and inviting around this girl without getting nervous and making a fool of yourself! You already know she likes you -- what are you so scared of? Take a deep breath and think before you speak and act. It will be fine!

Sachinnnnn asked, Hi love Guru, I am a working professional who is in love with a girl which is an non indian my family is unable to accept her. what to do?

Love Guru answers, What do you mean your family is 'unable' to accept her? You mean they don't WANT to accept her. Because they're narrow-minded and don't want to welcome someone different from them into their family. It depends on you, whether you want a future with this girl or not. But let me tell you, I don't think much of men who are unable to make the right decision because of their families' foolish beliefs.

raj1 asked, Hi LOVE GURUJI,.. i have been a new friend, i met her three times at the last time we introduced everything about each others, at the same time she told me that only friendship, and i agree with her, we always treat each other as a good friend there is nothing other then a friendship we never crossed our boundary, it's almost three mohths till, but now it's almost two weeks she stoped contacting me,i tried to contact her but she never pick-up she kept as a miss call,i don't want to lose this friendship, plz yaar help me what should i do now?

Love Guru answers, message her and ask what the problem is. Good friends should be able to confide in each other.