Has the person you love turned down a relationship with you?

In a chat with Get Ahead readers on August 28, the Love Guru addressed many such problems. For those of you who missed it, here's the unedited transcript.

Love Guru says, Hi there, everyone! Time to discuss relationships again -- let's get started!

sanjay asked, love guru I am(28) love with a grl she's 16 yr old n she loves me alot but v no there is no hope for marriage wt shd v do

Love Guru answers, If you know there's no hope, call it off. She's too young to know what she wants from life right now, but you're older and wiser. So end this relationship for both your sakes.

mohit asked, hi.luv guru i m a vry shy guy... i can't speak 2 gals i don't hav courage 2 talk 2 dem... my frens do talk but i cant so can help me out...

Love Guru answers, Only you can help yourself, Mohit. Behave like women are your male buddies. Don't think of them as any different from guys and you'll find things are smooth sailing.

Pran asked, Hi LG, I have a GF with whom I have been since past 2 yrs... Previously everything worked fine, but now her ego comes up at everything... we still do love each other and want to marry each other... What can I do to reduce the fights between us which arise due to her ego??

Love Guru answers, How are you so sure they're because of her ego? It takes two hands to clap -- in other words, it takes two people to fight. Both of you need to learn how to compromise.

pradeep_bansal asked, hi luv guru..... i m writing to you for the very first time.. i talk to one of my classmates regularly on fone....she is just a friend.... but as we talked more and more, i started developing some sexual inclination towards her.. i can also gather that she has also started feeling the same... now tell me...how should i overcome this ?? should i simply stop talking to her ???

Love Guru answers, If you're attracted to her as a person and not just sexually, why don't you pursue a relationship? Haven't you thought of dating her? If you don't want to, just remain friends. No need to stop talking to her altogether, that's an extreme measure.

bvn_agr2849 asked, hii love guru, im in love with gal n she says me 2 wait 2 get her maary aftr 3 yrs, im 25 now n she is 21, is it ok 2 wait for next 3 yrs?

Love Guru answers, Why not? I think she's right, she's too young to get married at 21. And there's no harm in you marrying at 28, either.

balaji asked, helo,i am 23 years old & have a realeationship with a girl from last 7 yrs, but now i think that she donot care for me , what can i do

Love Guru answers, Ask her if that's really the case. Sometimes after being in a relationship too long, you fall out of love with your partner. It's unfortunate, but it happens, especially to people who don't take an active part in keeping the spark alive. Either you two start working at it or then part ways. No point in carrying on just for the sake of it.

sachin asked, hi love guru i m propose my friend twice but she is feeling that im just joking with her about this matter.what is her feeling about me?

Love Guru answers, Sachin, maybe you need to tell her honestly that you're not joking and that if she doesn't like the idea, she should just tell you instead of pretending like you are kidding.