girialpha asked, hi love guru. i am married for four years, my intial years of marriage i had lot of financial troubles, but i am recovering now, i want to mend fences with my wife what shall i do to gain her confidence

Love Guru answers, Sit down with her and have a heart-to-heart talk. Discuss your own faults with each other and apologise to each other. Make a fresh start.

Angel asked, I am in a relation with a guy for the past 6 years. He loves me a lot but when comes to marriage,he does't take any step as his family never consider us to be together. Please tell me how should i convince him for that??

Love Guru answers, You can't convince a rat to behave like a lion. He's too much of a coward to go against them. Let go of him and find someone who is willing to be with you at all costs.

shalini asked, hi love guru this is the first time i am writing to you and just praying i will get some solution to my problem. i have a chat friend with whom i have been chatting for last 4 yrs. i have asked him so many times to come to my city and meet me but he just avoids it. many times i think he is just passing time with me becoz he doesn't make any commitments. Shd i go to his city and meet him?? i know he had a gf earlier whom he loved a lot but she got married. he says he loves me a lot but is not ready for marriage. what shd i do?? i love him a lot.

Love Guru answers, Shalini, you've never met this man in your life! How do you know that anything he's told you about himself is true? He could be married, he could be 45 years old, he could be a father! I would suggest you stop dwelling on this relationship because it isn't one. If he was serious about you, he would certainly have met you. What's the point of carrying on a relationship where there's no future and he doesn't even want to meet you? Do you know how crazy that sounds?

Digant asked, Hi I am a 27 yr boy. I am in love with my friend.But the problem is that she loves someone.she loves her boyfriend very much. but his boyfriend is very careless about relationship as he is very close to his family and also he is very careless about his carrier. And also her family dont likes her boyfriend . on the other hand i am a establish person. according to her she loves her boyfriend but dont want to marry him. accordind to her She want aperson like me in her life for marrige. she is very confuse between me and her boyfriend. She cant able to decide which way to go. Because she think that if she leave her boyfriend he will die.I am confuse also because of her confusion. as she is also worried that if we get marriede. is our relationship works. as I know everthing about the relationship . can u tell me the solution

Love Guru answers, Tell her that she shouldn't carry on a relationship which has no future as it will be worse if she calls it off with her boyfriend later rather than now. If she wants to marry you and you want to marry her, what's the problem? She needs to make up her mind. Soon. Tell her that, because she can't expect you to wait around till she does. So what if you know about her boyfriend? If you love and accept her as she is, things will be fine. But leave the past in the past.

Sonai asked, Hi,Love guru..Plz Help..I am Engaged literally with My Girl Friend For about 1 year..Since our relation begun,i have always tried to remove misunderstandings between us..But,the more i try to remove them,the more they arise..Recently her exam result went bad,mine too was bad,but she is behaving very rudely with me since then..She is in college now,& me Away in home,as i am doing a course here..I have never been away from her for so long time since 1 year..Moreover,She Has changed her behaviour towards me,& behaves rudely with me on phone..What should i do? Please Help..

Love Guru answers, Sonai, you need to tell her that if she wants to break it off, she should just do that instead of taking you for granted. If she talks rudely, tell her to call you when she learns how to talk and just cut the call. Don't be taken for granted like this. You'd be better off single if she doesn't mend her ways.

friend asked, Love Guru, i am looking for a virgin girl for me to marry, But all the girls i am afraid to say have had physical relation with someone or the other. How to find a virgin girl?

Love Guru answers, There is no test to prove one's virginity! And what's your obsession with a virgin? So what if someone has been in love before and gotten physical? Haven't you ever been attracted to anybody in your life? Get over it!

yash asked, I AM MARRIED AND HAVE TWO KIDS AND I AM 39 YRS OLD. I AM IN LOVE WITH A GIRL OF 22YRS OLD. SHE ALSO LOVE ME LOT. WE CAN'T LIVE WITHOUT EACH OTHER. SHE WANTS TO MARRY ME BUT ALREADY THEIR PARENTS FIXED HER MARRIAGE WITH A NRI. IF SHE MARRY WITH HIM WE CAN NOT MEET IN FUTURE. WHAT WE WILL DO???????

Love Guru answers, You will learn to stop cheating on your partners the hard way -- and you both deserve it!

sidrocker asked, hi LG My gf for three years left me for another guy.I begged her to come back but she never did. Now i am looking for my spouse. do u think i wll ever be able to forget my first love

Love Guru answers, Don't worry, you will fall in love again when you meet the right person.

Sanjaylal asked, remember, i had told u abt my girlfriend and my best friend (a guy) not getting along? Well, it still continues and I told my friend not to interact with her, only with me, and same to my girlfriend, but he says tht there'll always be problems whenever we 3 are together, as they just cannot see eye-to-eye...he's taken a step back now and has stopped interacting with me completely...my gf's happy as i'm with her and he himself has gone out of the picture...but i knw he's deeply hurt abt all this and so am i...what should I do?

Love Guru answers, Tell your girlfriend that you miss your friend and don't want to give him up. Approach him and tell him the same thing. The least they can do is learn to be civil with each other instead of being so selfish and thinking only of themselves.