BaijuBawra asked, hi love guru I am in a relationship with 2 women and can make up my mind on whom to choose can you please help me in this situation of mine

Love Guru answers, When you stop seeing the advantages of marrying each girl and let your heart decide who you love more, you'll be able to make the right choice.

poonam asked, I am inlove but the person is probably cheating me. Will he marry me this year ?

Love Guru answers, Why do you want to spend the rest of your life with a cheat? And why are you asking me whether he will marry you this year -- I'm not an astrologer, my dear!

sunil asked, hi love guru, how r u? the thing is last two times ialreadt post my question still i didn't get the replay ok no problem this time i will hope my question is I LOVED ONE GIRL LAST 2 YEAR SHE WANT KEEP SEX REALTION WITH ME WHAT CAN I DO ,PLZ HELP ME?

Love Guru answers, Say 'no' -- that's what you can do!

neha asked, my husband and me have been amrried for 4 years..we are trying for a baby however some how both of us have lost interst in sex and he says it is because of me....please tell me how can i initiate sex so that we can have a smooth relationship....

Love Guru answers, Trying for a baby becomes routine sometimes and both partners cease to enjoy sex. To take the pressue off both of you, stop trying so hard -- also try to spice up your sex lives by infusing a little romance, like lighting candles in the bedroom, wearing sexy innerwear etc.

hiten asked, hi i had a gf we were dating from jan but be4 she use 2 like some1 else n after me also 1 more person inbetween she told meit was infactuation now she is trying 2 get bac 2 the 1st 1 she liked do u think she loves me coz she was very good but changes her mind can u tell me

Love Guru answers, I don't think she loves any one of you! She may be a nice person, but she's fickle-minded when it comes to love. I would suggest you remain friends and date other women.

Manjunath asked, I am the person who got the marriage arranged and after the Engagement we had almost 6 months gap before the marriage. This is the time we went into deep love. Now are 3 months old as couples and seriously havong some misunderstands. What is the remedy for thid

Love Guru answers, What you're going through is normal -- all young couples undergo such a period of adjustment. The key to success is to compromise with each other and not get bitter about things. It will run smoother if both of ou give in to each other from time to time.

girish asked, I like a girl who is a grat looker,far more talented and successful than than me. While i am ugly,balding not half as talented as her, no half as successful in my career as her. But still i love her a lot. She just about knows me as an ex-collegue.I need her somehow in my life. Its getting difficult to live without her.I know i am not good enough to propose her.What do i do?

Love Guru answers, Girish, don't think you're not good enough for anybody. Women don't always go for a person's looks or image. But in this situation, she only knows you as an ex-colleague. She isn't your friend and you hardly know her. It is unlikely that she would be interested in you -- if she was, she would have been friendly even when you worked in the same office. You can try to re-establish contact and become friends. If she responds, take it further. If she avoids you, get the message and move on.

venkat asked, My partner for 2 years chose to move out of our relationship 6 yrs ago.Since we are from the same background she cant avoid me totally and so maintains just the bare minimum courtesy now. This makes me feel bad and upset. However hard and ill feeling against her for betrayal doesn't come to me automatically. I still feel the same for her within myself. Now that relationship seems to have ended should I still hold her high or should I develop a feeling of hatred against her and avoid her totally, since I do feel bad n upset about the reality now, thinking about what it was earlier.

Love Guru answers, It's been six years! Why are you indulging your feelings to no purpose? Get over it already! Why love her or hate her? She's a part of your past -- just accept that and move on!

Rex asked, It was a one sided love with a girl, when i told her about this she said i dont feel for Boys, i m a lesbian, what should i do, i want to bring her back to normal course.

Love Guru answers, Listen, you can't bring her back to your definition of 'normal' -- for her, being a lesbian is normal! So stop pining for what you can't have!