karthic.P asked, I have a gf and she is very much interested on me but she belongs to different religion, whereas my family wont accept this marriage..how to convince her to get rid of me.i have tried so many times to tell her leave me but she cries all the time.. what to do .. now

Love Guru answers, Question is, do you want to leave her? You'd rather spend the rest of your life without someone you love because of family pressure? Decide what you want, first. And let me tell you, a love that depends on familial approval so much is a weak kind of love. A real man would fight for the woman he cares for.

VKM asked, Hi Love Guru. I am married for the past 17 months. We live in a joint family. my problem is that I get angry on my wife for small things which I want her to do on her own(I have already discussed with her on what things she needs to do & why), but she does not do them (she does some and she forgets rest). Also, she gets angry easily and I cannot stand that (and I also then get angry). Because of this also, we usually have fights. I guess we fight almost daily. Can you please suggest how this can be sorted out? I want to have a good & enjoyable relationship with my wife and not what it is currently. I have tried talking to her many times, but it becomes good for 1 day and then again everything is back to square one. I only have to always talk to her to improve our relationship and what we should do and not do, but she never initiate talks on these things , inspite of telling her that she needs to contribute to the relationship as well. Please advise, it will be most helpful.

Love Guru answers, Your problem seems to be your family set-up, or you wouldn't have mentioned it to me. Maybe you and your wife should consider moving out.

zombie1 asked, hi guru..plz help..i'm 27 yrs old, my fiancee wanted to know about my ex-gf. i told her about her, and since then my fiancee is very much disturbed and keeps telling that when ever i talk to her she feels as if i would have talked like that to my ex-gf also. actually i do not have any contact with my ex-gf for last 2 yrs. bcoz of this situation my relationship with my fiancee has become very tensed. plz let me know a solution for this problem.

Love Guru answers, Tell your silly fiance that you have been honest enough to tell her all about your life and that if she behaves so childish you will not tell her anything else! She is behaving utterly ridiculous and if she's had previous relationships as well, she should understand that the past is the past. Tell her to just get over it, because she is putting a strain on your relationship.

Vijy asked, Hi ,i love one girl very much,before talking to her i used to write her mails and through which i used to share with her my feeling and all.Even i told her that i love you lot but it is one sided now i have left that job where she is working wright now.so tell me what i should do

Love Guru answers, If it was one-sided, there's nothing you can do, Vijy. You can try emailing her and asking her if she wants to remain friends, but I don't think this girl is really interested in you.

Bachu asked, Hii Love guru, the thing with me is inituially gals get close and flirt n stuff but aftr some time we get or become good friends and it doesnt proceed further, so u got anythng for me??

Love Guru answers, Maybe there's something you're doing wrong. Contact an old, trusted girl friend of yours and ask her why this is happening. Being a woman and being a good friend of yours, she may be able to tell you what you're doing wrong.

arpita asked, hi loveguru i got into a relation sometime back... abt a year back... but it had always been on sided and then when i cud no longer compromise i broke it off... am i right?

Love Guru answers, Depends. Did you put yourself in the other person's shoes before deciding that it was one-sided? If you found that it was affecting your life in a negative manner, it wasn't the right relationship for you. If it doesn't feel right, it isn't right -- nobody needs to tell you that.

dheeraj asked, LOve Guru, My problem is despiet being happily married, I get attracted to beautiful women. Due to my suave talking skills, most of them also get attracted to me with full trust on me. My wife will get furious if she knwos that I was freindly to a gal in the last birth also. Idont mind, as I find every individual being unique and different soul. How do I reconcile?

Love Guru answers, You were friendly to a gal in your last birth? And your wife will get furious? Come back to the chatroom next week -- when you're sober!

cools asked, Hi Love Guru, Am getting marry in a few months (arrange marriage). I like my finace vry much & may be he also likes me. Problem is i heard that time between engagement to marriage is a golden period but we never use to talk over phone nor we meet. Sometimes we chit chat on sms or once in a while use to call. Cld u pl let me know why this happening. I love him a lot.

Love Guru answers, Why don't you suggest to him that you should meet up and go out together? Maybe if you initiate it, he'll start enjoying your company as much as you do his.

Love Guru says, That's it for today, guys 'n' girls! Come back next week, same time, same place, to talk over your love problems! Ta ta!