anandjodhani asked, Hi, my names Anand, I have been seeing someone for the last year and a half. I stay alone in Mumbai just now. I will be soon moving back with my parents. Problem is my gf has a bad temper. There have been more than 2 dozen instances when she got wild and made me miserable. Everytime she gets wild, the next morning she feels very sorry for what she did and tells me she will improve. I dont mind this but the problem is she will create trouble with my parents. She promises to change and give up her temper. Do you think I should accept that? Otherwise shes a very nice girl and we get along fabulously. I have read and understand that you should marry people as they are now, not expecting them to change later. What is your view?

Love Guru answers, I would suggest you live separate from your parents -- it will help your girlfriend keep good relations with them. Moreover, since this habit of hers gets to you, why don't you give her a dose of her own medicine once? Get as wild as her and then ask how she feels about it. It will probably shut her up.

Pris asked, I am a 28-year-old guy. I have had many a crushes and those would not last long, but about 2 years ago, I started talking to one of the girls who worked in my office who I had a crush on and we kept chatting and all, but later on as usual the crush faded away and I began respecting her as a good friend. I used to talk to her regularly and then she proposed to me but I said no because I did not feel anything about her but we continued to talk and go about. Now even after 2 years she continues to have the same feelings, which I cannot reciprocate, and this makes her feel very hurt. I do not know what to do?

Love Guru answers, There's nothing you can do. As long as you're being honest with her and not taking advantage of her, you're doing the right thing. She'll get the message eventually.

mandarpv asked, love guru i am attracted with my mother-in-law, how to attract her for physical relationship? advice me...

Love Guru answers, I advise you to soak your head till some sense prevails! Are you nuts, you little creep? Forget such fantasies and don't go about asking for advice on how to execute them!

Maddy asked, Hi GURU, Please HELP! We used to love each other a lot for almost a year, there was no problem in our relation except some small quarrels. but one fine day when I called her she told me that She got engaged last month. I was shocked. And asked her that i want to discuss about this and later we even discussed and I came to know that she was engaged to a guy in the USA and she was so reluctant to get married to him coz of USA... I went balnk and wished her nad never called her after that I want to ask I loved her so much that i decided that i will not be creating any problem to her in the near future let her have what she likes. HOW CAN SOMEONE IN LOVE DUMP SOMEONE LIKE THIS FOR SOMEONE ELSE YOU DONT KNOW JUST FOR A GOOD OPPURTUNITY.please advice.

Love Guru answers, You've been spared from having to live with such a person for the rest of your life. I'm sorry for the way it happened, but if she did something like this, she didn't deserve you.

KAUSHAL asked, my loved one got married a yearc ago but i still love her alot. i doono what 2 do as i stil cant forget her

Love Guru answers, Remind yourself that if she really loved you, she wouldn't have married someone else! It's time to let go and move forward -- don't dwell in the past, Kaushal.

apsingh asked, Hiiiii When I was doing my class, I saw a girl. I began to love her. but I thought that it may be just a crush. When After 6 months, I contact her, she say that i don't know you. But now I realised that I love her very much. what should I do?

Love Guru answers, If she doesn't know you, how do you expect her to like you? And stop using words like 'love' when you don't even know a person yet! Start off by being only friends -- who knows what will happen, right now it seems like you're only attracted to her looks. Once you know her as a person, you may feel differently!

faheem asked, I LOVE A GIRL & SHE ALSO LOVE ME BUT SOME MISUNDERSTANDING SHE COULD NOT WANT TO MEET WITH ME. WHAT CAN I DO?

Love Guru answers, Get a common friend to tell you where she is one day and approach her -- tell her to give you just one chance to clear this misunderstanding. Only a really stubborn person would refuse.

RajBhatia asked, I am crazy in love with my cousin sister, but my family is against it because of medical reasons. They say family inbreeding is not healthy. Me and my cousin have physical relationship and we both can't think of marrying anyone else. Please suggest.

Love Guru answers, Ugh, this seems like a sticky situation. I'm sincerely hoping you and your cousin are adults, here. I'd suggest you contact a doctor and see what medical risks such a union would put you at and how these risks can be minimised. Maybe your family will then agree.