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'I'm attracted to my friend's mom'

December 7, 2007

loveless asked, love guru: i had no liking for gals of my age. i feel attrated to my friends mom and seems like even she is interested. what shud i do. Am 16

Love Guru answers, Are you confusing your life with the movie 'American Pie'? Listen, all boys have a crush on an attractive older woman at some point in their lives -- it's just a part of growing up, but don't even think of acting on these feelings! This is just a teenage crush, but it will escalate into something far worse if you act on it!


richa asked, i love a person whose married before his marriage he also love me a lot as he said tell me should i leave him or not.

Love Guru answers, He loved you and married someone else? Richa, don't be a fool, my dear -- this man is playing you like a pipe! Leave him and find someone who wants to spend the rest of his life with you!


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Love Guru answers, So why don't you tell her that in person instead of pasting your feelings in my chatroom?


hemabala asked, I love a gal. The gal too loves me. But my love has been shifted to her younger sister because of their mother. What shall i do? I love both the sisters now?

Love Guru answers, Excuse me? What do you mean the mother made you 'shift' to the younger sister? Are you spineless, that you got involved with her also? Or did you want to enjoy two women instead of one? Be a man, you mouse -- and remain true to the one girl you love and who loves you back!


benny asked, i am 34 yrs old b.com graduate guy, wit an average job. & the gal i love is 23, & she has just finished her MBA, & very soon she will get a very good high salaried job. but she loves me very mch n wants to marry me only. but the problem is how should i convince her parents dat she will be very happy with me

Love Guru answers, Benny, if she knows she's going to be happy with you, that's all that matters. You don't have to convince her parents, if they want what's best for their daughter and want to see her happy. Also, it's never too late -- you could sign up for an executive MBA yourself with a leading institution and work at putting your own career in gear.


pam asked, i m in luv wid this erson who luks like he also loves me bt at the same time he is a big flirt..tlks n chats wid many women ans comes and tell me also. i feel very hurt. i how much want to leave him bt i cant. what to do

Love Guru answers, If Mr Flirty is your boyfriend, tell him you don't appreciate his behaviour. If he's not, then I'm afraid, Pam, that it's entirely his business what he does. This may be the reason he hasn't committed to you, in which case, you should move on -- there's nothing like 'I can't leave him'. Just put your mind to it.


love asked, I am in love with a girl and she is pregnant know. I want to marry her, but due to CAST PROBLEM, i am in a BIG MESS...........PLEAZE HELP.

Love Guru answers, Is the baby yours? In that case, you better forget the 'caste problem' fast, my friend. Do what is right -- marry her if you love her and want to keep the baby and to hell with the rest of it. You made this mess yourself, my dear -- now is the time to be strong and face the consequences like an honourable man. Do what's right.


Illustration: Uttam Ghosh
Also read: Is your partner being emotionally unfaithful?

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