Are you struggling to save a relationship?
Are you and your partner facing problems?
You may think that there's no solution to your troubles, but Get Ahead's Love Guru is here to help!
In a chat with readers on December 7, Love Guru addressed all kind of relationship troubles. For those of you who missed it, here's the transcript.
Love Guru says, A huge helloooo to
all my love-struck lads and ladies out there! Love Guru is now here to help
solve all matters of the heart!
Sandhya asked, I know he likes me too but we
have ego problems confessing to each other how do I go about? As a lady I will
and cannot ever propose
Love Guru answers, Hi, Sandhya! If you know he likes you, what's the
problem? Ego has no place in loving relationships, so one of you will have to
step off your high horse. If you truly feel like you can't talk about your
feelings to him, get a common friend to drop a hint to him that you're waiting
for him to approach.
Aryan asked, Love Guru..U didnt answered me
last week. so i am here again. Pls......listen:: am in love with a girl. we were
in a serious relationship for almost 1.5years. Now she has left me and moved on
to someone else. I really love her and tried to convince here.she said that you
made mistakes. I said sorry for all of them and asked for a chance even though
truly speaking, I didnt made any serious mistake.On the other hand I have always
supported here. I have also told about our relationship to my family and
friends.So how can she say that I dont love her? Pls suggest something.
Love Guru answers, Well, one way or another, darling, she
wants nothing to do with you. The very fact that she's making up stories and
saying you made mistakes means that she actually wanted to get out of the
relationship. Love is all about forgiveness in any case, so if she genuinely
loved you she would. I think it's time to move on, because Miss Make-an-excuse
really doesn't deserve you.
ashwani asked, i recently got married , i have
a girl friend before i got married, nw days she dont want to talk to me, bt i
do. So what can i do to forget her? firstly .
Love Guru
answers, You're married and it's best to leave the past in the past.
Why are you so keen to talk to your ex anyway? It will only create trouble in
your marriage, so don't go about doing foolish things like wanting to get cosy
with your ex when she's made it clear she wants nothing to do with you. Enjoy
your life with your wife.
FRIEND asked, I AM 34 YEARS OLD & I AM
LOVE WITH 32 f , SHE IS MARRIED , AND WE ARE HAVING GOOD FRIENDSHIP. BUT I AM IN
LOVE WITH HER, HOW BREAK HER MARRIED LIFE ? SO I CAN MARRY HER.
Love Guru answers, You call yourself 'Friend' but what you
are is a fiend! Stop trying to break up someone else's marriage and home! Most
likely if your friend gets to know about your feelings for her and your desire
to destroy her marriage, she may shut you out of her life entirely!
mack asked, i m married, one of my colleague
is interested in me for reletionships? what to do
Love Guru
answers, Keep your nose solely in your own marriage, that's what!
And tell your colleague to buzz off!
victor asked, i had written last time about my
problem hope i get a reply now i had mentioned that i am in love with an ex
collegue and she probably knows about it i dont have the courage to tell her
that pls advise how do i say it without hurting her feelings .. i feel she cares
about me
Love Guru answers, Hey, Vicky
boy...you've got to talk to her! You won't be hurting her feelings, in fact
you're putting your own feelings at risk of getting hurt if she doesn't feel the
same way about you. But go ahead and talk to her or you'll never find out!
Illustration: Uttam Ghosh
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