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'My girlfriend is pregnant! Help!'

December 7, 2007
Are you struggling to save a relationship?

Are you and your partner facing problems?

You may think that there's no solution to your troubles, but Get Ahead's Love Guru is here to help!

In a chat with readers on December 7, Love Guru addressed all kind of relationship troubles. For those of you who missed it, here's the transcript.


Love Guru says, A huge helloooo to all my love-struck lads and ladies out there! Love Guru is now here to help solve all matters of the heart!


Sandhya asked, I know he likes me too but we have ego problems confessing to each other how do I go about? As a lady I will and cannot ever propose

Love Guru answers, Hi, Sandhya! If you know he likes you, what's the problem? Ego has no place in loving relationships, so one of you will have to step off your high horse. If you truly feel like you can't talk about your feelings to him, get a common friend to drop a hint to him that you're waiting for him to approach.


Aryan asked, Love Guru..U didnt answered me last week. so i am here again. Pls......listen:: am in love with a girl. we were in a serious relationship for almost 1.5years. Now she has left me and moved on to someone else. I really love her and tried to convince here.she said that you made mistakes. I said sorry for all of them and asked for a chance even though truly speaking, I didnt made any serious mistake.On the other hand I have always supported here. I have also told about our relationship to my family and friends.So how can she say that I dont love her? Pls suggest something.

Love Guru answers, Well, one way or another, darling, she wants nothing to do with you. The very fact that she's making up stories and saying you made mistakes means that she actually wanted to get out of the relationship. Love is all about forgiveness in any case, so if she genuinely loved you she would. I think it's time to move on, because Miss Make-an-excuse really doesn't deserve you.


ashwani asked, i recently got married , i have a girl friend before i got married, nw days she dont want to talk to me, bt i do. So what can i do to forget her? firstly .

Love Guru answers, You're married and it's best to leave the past in the past. Why are you so keen to talk to your ex anyway? It will only create trouble in your marriage, so don't go about doing foolish things like wanting to get cosy with your ex when she's made it clear she wants nothing to do with you. Enjoy your life with your wife.


FRIEND asked, I AM 34 YEARS OLD & I AM LOVE WITH 32 f , SHE IS MARRIED , AND WE ARE HAVING GOOD FRIENDSHIP. BUT I AM IN LOVE WITH HER, HOW BREAK HER MARRIED LIFE ? SO I CAN MARRY HER.

Love Guru answers, You call yourself 'Friend' but what you are is a fiend! Stop trying to break up someone else's marriage and home! Most likely if your friend gets to know about your feelings for her and your desire to destroy her marriage, she may shut you out of her life entirely!


mack asked, i m married, one of my colleague is interested in me for reletionships? what to do

Love Guru answers, Keep your nose solely in your own marriage, that's what! And tell your colleague to buzz off!


victor asked, i had written last time about my problem hope i get a reply now i had mentioned that i am in love with an ex collegue and she probably knows about it i dont have the courage to tell her that pls advise how do i say it without hurting her feelings .. i feel she cares about me

Love Guru answers, Hey, Vicky boy...you've got to talk to her! You won't be hurting her feelings, in fact you're putting your own feelings at risk of getting hurt if she doesn't feel the same way about you. But go ahead and talk to her or you'll never find out!


Illustration: Uttam Ghosh
Also read: Is your spouse cheating on you?

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