Abhi asked, Hi LG,i m 26 yrs old,met a lady who is 10 yrs elder havin 2 children,on net,we daily talk to each other,she says she loves me and i am also attracted towards her,but we both do our family responsibilities very well and are never careless towards our work. we dont have any expectations with each other and sex is not at all involved. we are gud frnds also. i just want to know the future of this relation.

Love Guru answers, Is she married? Even if she isn't, do you understand the implications of taking this further? She has two young kids. It's all fine to say 'I love you' on the Internet to someone you've never even met, but the day you meet her in person and start having an affair your life will be a mess unless you carefully think this through!

will asked, Hey! my girlfriend and I were in a not committed but living together. expecations clash were common, but i trusted her. Last friday she kissed this guy and was sorry for it. I remained obsessed with this guys for 4 days and then told me that it happend because i was not giving physical attention to her and sees a chance to get back. what say?

Love Guru answers, Well, she may have hurt your feelings by kissing this man, but both of you agreed to a no-commitments relationship, right? This is what happens when you try to behave ultra-cool -- it's 'with it' to say you're living in and not committed, but how does it feel now? I suggest both of you decide whether you want a strong, committed relationship and if so, forget what happened. Else just head your separate ways if you're not compatible! And in that case, stop living together!

nita asked, Hi, I am married women with a kid. Even though I haven’t liked my husband my parents married me, after that I met my colleague, we are having very good relations, he loves me a lot & even cares for me a lot. All the time I quarre with my husband. My colleague is not working now with me, but still we are in good touch. Now the issue is when I am asking him that what will be the future of our relation, he is always unanswerable. But i don’t know how too tackle the situation at any condition I don’t want to hurt him. Please guide

Love Guru answers, You're married with a kid and he's been enjoying an extramarital relationship with you. But once the question of him taking responsibility for you and your child arose, he kept quiet. I don't think it's such a good idea to pursue this relationship with this guy. In any case, if you're unhappy in your marriage, walk out. You don't need another man to do that.

aash asked, HI, I was in a serious relationship for 4 1/2 year's my gal suddenly left me cause she got a messgae from GOD that this is not the right relationship and left me. i have no idea what happened nor was i upto anything ehich would upset her. i was honest, loyal & working real hard to secure a good future for us. Now i have started to hate girls, i dont know why are there any tips to bring my life back on track

Love Guru answers, What she told you was a heap of rubbish, 10 feet high! How easily she got out of the relationship with a convenient excuse! I'm sure you must be bitter about it but all women out there aren't like that Aash -- in fact, very few are like this sly gal you were dating! You'll find a nice girl who will love you for who you are.

shyam asked, shyam i am in love with one marred women who works with me she takes my care kips me inform about everything in the office we eat and travel together i think that she also loves me what do i do

Love Guru answers, Excuse me, but in your question earlier you conveniently never mentioned she was married! In that case, I'd strongly suggest you stop thinking about wrecking someone else's home like this!

sakshi asked, Hi i am sakshi,I married 12 years i hv son of 10 years i love my family very much. But since 10 years i love one person who is my officer is an CA in profession. He is also in love with me. Even he is having a daughter & a son even he loves his family very much. We dont have any physical relationship we hardly meet with each other but we always call & talk to each other. Neither i want to leave my family nor he wants to. But the question should we keep this relation or break it off. Plz hel i dont understand.

Love Guru answers, Be strictly friends. No talk of being in love and no getting involved in a physical relationship! If you can't control your feelings, stop talking to each other altogether or you'll create a mess for both your families!

sumit asked, i am studying abroad in a University, where a female professor is all over me. what should I do? Should I give in to her?

Love Guru answers, 'Give in'? It's inappropriate for a teacher and student to get involved, even if they are in the same age group!

Nids asked, I just broke off with my fiancee in an arranged marriage. I was engaged to her. The reasons are very dreadfull, her parents had an HIV+ infection, they are no more now. But my ex-fiancee is now extremely devastated, she had some expectation from me. I feel sympathy for her, I just cannot stop thinking about her, but I am not in love with her. What should I do?

Love Guru answers, What kind of man are you? You promised to marry this girl and because of her parents' tragic illness you broke off your engagement? And don't give me that 'I'm not in love with her' crap! You weren't in love with her when you met her for an arranged marriage, but you still agreed to the wedding right? Tell me something, when your parents arrange the next girl for you, will you be in love with her? No you won't, because you won't know her to begin with! You've done a despicable thing and I'm glad that the guilt of what you did is burning you! If you had any scruples you would have supported your fiance through this difficult time in her life and shared her problems instead of dumping her and adding to her misery!