a asked, sir ,we had done arrange marriagr in 2003 we have son of age 2 yrs ,but my hubby behavior is some what different like some time he behaves very nice ,some types very bad yhat he beats me sir each day he satisfied himself sexseually but doesnot sleep with me.if i shows interest than he enjoys with me iam so confuse what type he person is , or how i should behave with him to improve our relatioship .

Love Guru answers, He has no right to beat you. Why are you taking it? Domestic violence isn't a trivial issue, my dear -- your husband is a woman beater! Tell him that he is never to raise his hand on you again and that maybe he needs to take anger-management counselling. If he doesn't agree, maybe you should rethink your marriage.

sweetie asked, hi LG... hi...am a married woman and i love my husband very much. my problem is that of late am unable to respond to him sexually speaking even though i love him. this is frustrating him and i dont know how to help the situation. the problem is am feeling frightened by the act and am not sure why this is happening. kindly advise me as to how i can overcome this fear and resume a normal and happy married sex life

Love Guru answers, You may need professional help to get rid of this irrational fear. You cannot respond to your husband because you are afraid of getting physical and sex is never possible if a partner is under stress. See a sex specialist.

aarman asked, hi im in love with one of my colleague.I had told her regarding that also.But she always says "C.. i told u before also.. that friendship ka siba hum dono ke bich aur koi rista nahi hoga... but i think.. u misunderstand me... me sirf as a gud friend hamesha baat karti thi... & rahi baat Aap ko hurt karne ki.. pata hai... i always try to make u Happy but i m failed... " So wht shld i do .. one more thin we hv never meet as she in west bengal & me in gujarat..but really dunno wht to do .. rit nw i cant imagine a life wth out her.. but she hs got i suppose nuthin as such .. plz suggests

Love Guru answers, You cannot force someone to love you and here the question of love doesn't even arise because you've never even met her! This is just an infatuation. Remain friends and don't try to pursue a relationship. If you want a girlfriend, start dating women -- in person!

JubeeRubee asked, Hi LG i have an affair of 8 years now we get green signal for marriage but before marriage he want to do sex, is it right to do?

Love Guru answers, The answer to that question depends on you -- do you want to? If so, go ahead. If you have doubts about it and want to wait to get married, don't let him force you into it.

byomkesh.bakshi asked, My frined's wife signals me. she ispretty sexy & have invited me this weekend to stay with her. My friend is on tour for a fortnight. Should I accept the invite?

Love Guru answers, No. Have some consideration for your friend -- it's bad enough that he's married to a woman of such loose character, don't make things worse by doing this behind his back.

Manoj asked, I never sex with anybody & by that Every girl avoid me please tell me wht do I do

Love Guru answers, Stop behaving so desperate is what you should do. Women are smart -- they probably can make out when they meet you that you're dying for a girlfriend and desperate for sex. So they brush you off immediately. If you behave towards a woman exactly like you would behave towards a male friend, they'll be comfortable around you and you will eventually meet some one who is attracted to you.

sk asked, I am love wth an NRI staying in UK. She was earlier got cheated in love. But she is comfortable talking to me, when I expressed my love, she rejected. Then wanted 2 be her best friend. When I proposed the same to be her best bussy, she suddenly proposed me, for which I accepted. Now she has decome silent and is maintaining silence when I asked her to be sure of her decision.What do u advice?

Love Guru answers, Wait it out. Tell her you are sure of wanting her, but that you don't feel like she is sure of wanting you, given that she changed her mind so many times. Tell her she has to trust you 100 percent if she's thinking of a relationship. Every man isn't the cheating kind.