anit asked, hello LG, I m married & having 2 child & living with family but i m in love with a girl. she is younger than me about 18 years. we both like to each other but now she will get married soon. As earlier she forcing me for marriage but i refuse to her due to family respect but now her marriage is fixed i m in problen i cant see she will go to another man. so pls advise what shaii i do?

Love Guru answers, Stop indulging your foolish fantasies about a girl young enough to be your daughter and work on reviving the romance in your marriage instead!

enterguy asked, Hi love guru i wants some help from you. one day i went to my aunt place for vacation, that time uncle was on office tour and she has a daughter @ age 12 and i m 24. I was sleeping in dinning room, At late mid night aunt came out of her bed room and sleep besides me, she insist physical relation from me and i supported her. Next day i feel guilt about the act i did, now I am back at home mostly aunt call my mom and asking for me to stay with her. I don't want to continue this relation what's your opinion, can i have your suggestion please.

Love Guru answers, You are right to put a stop to this nonsense -- don't give in. It would be a scandal if your family were to find out and think of your uncle -- he would be shattered. Don't allow this to happen ever again.

saurav asked, hi LG.mine is a complicated case.me n my gf were in a relation fr past 3years.then her parents forced her to gt engaged with someone else.and as she couldnt do anything.we broke up abt 2 months ago.nw she called me somedays bk sayin dat her engagement is broken n she wants us to b frens again.but says she doesnt knw wats gonna happen in future as she might gt engaged to someone else.i dont knw wat to do nw as she calls daily. i also love her but um afraid if she again leaves me wat will i do?and i have moved on a bit.by all this i might land up whr i was 2 months ago. plz suggest somethin.

Love Guru answers, Saurav, if she's plainly telling you that she'll get engaged to someone else, it's fairly obvious that that's exactly what she'll do! Tell her you'd rather not be friends because you don't believe in relationships that have no future and don't want to fall for her again. I'm glad to hear you've moved on -- keep going forward and don't look to the past!

swar86 asked, I am in love with a 27 year old girl met through chat. although we have met we know each other very well but the matter of fact is that I am just 22 & not as much educated as her. we both love each other & want to get married but our families & relatives are against us. what should I do???

Love Guru answers, "Although we have met we know each other very well" -- did you mean to say you haven't met her? In any case, you're too young for marriage. If you are serious about this girl, meet her and I don't mean once -- you need to get to know each other on a personal level and you need to grow up a bit before you decide to marry. At least wait another 2 years minimum.

x asked, i like a gal in the same office.i use the office chat most of the time. 2 chat with her.sometimes she says is busy , but ok its since she is reaaly busy with project work. but most of the times she keeps the converstion sort.so how do i take the realtion further

Love Guru answers, Take a hint -- she's being polite but she's not really interested in you at all. I'd suggest you drop the idea altogether.

ashika asked, Hi Loveguru... Please atleast this give response to me.... This is Ashika... I love a guy... and my parents want me to get married as I am career wise also settled... The problem from guy's side is he is so good but his elder sister do not want to get married... She made her mind and he is not able to convince her for marriage. Is it right to ask her to get married for our happines??? I can't lead a happy life without him. totally confused. I feel like it is wrong to force somebody to get married... Can u please advice me on this?

Love Guru answers, What has his sister's marriage got to do with the two of you? If she doesn't want to get married, it's her choice. But since you and he want to get married, by all means do so!

nayaj asked, i am a married man and satisfied with my married life, but i am also in love with one of my female colleague though she has neither said no or yes to my proposal of just be more than friends and less than married coupl. tell me how can i handle i do not want to loose anything

Love Guru answers, You deserve to lose everything, if you ask me, you cheat!Focus on your marriage and stop chasing skirts in the office!

din123 asked, hi loveguru, one married couple wants to have threesome sex and they approached me. Should I go ahead and join them? Kindly advise.

Love Guru answers, Look, in my opinion, marriage is monogamy -- and threesomes don't figure in monogamous relationships! I don't know what this couple is thinking by approaching you, but the decision is yours to make.