pinki asked, guru my bf leave me after spending 4 yrs with me.even today i love him a lot .how i forget him.as my parents looking for proposels

Love Guru answers, How long ago did he leave you? Why did he leave you? Does he feel the same way about you? If not, it's probably best to make an attempt to get over him. If you don't, you will remain unhappy. Some things in life aren't meant to be, my dear. You should be strong and make a conscious effort to move on.

Piyu asked, Hi LG, I am a married women, but got married against my will b4 6yrs & also have a kid as well. Since the time a get married for the single day we can not live happily bcoz of one or the other reason. Also my husband is taking doubt on me every time. But since last one year I am in love with guy who was my colleague, now we are nt working in the office but still we are in touch . He cares for me a lot & loves me a lot. But nw the problem is I had very big quarrel with my husband & now I really very much frustrated with my weak relationship. Really I am not getting what to do? How to proceed……. Pls guide

Love Guru answers, If you don't love your husband and want a divorce, go ahead and take it. But let me tell you one thing -- you better make sure your lover is willing to accept your child as his own. Only if you are truly unhappy and not in love with your husband should you leave him.

sss asked, I have asked this Question Several Times, but you are not Replying me, please Reply me at least this time. It's a Serious Issue. I'm in love with my own Sister. She is also in Love with me. We had Sex also, whenever we got a chance in home. Now my problem is how we tell this to our parents and ask them to arrange for our marriage?

Love Guru answers, Okay, you have landed yourself in quite a mess, my friend. I don't know what your age is but I do hope that both you and your sister are young enough to grow out of this phase. Sometimes during puberty it is possible to be attracted physically to a sibling, but you shouldn't be pursuing it under any circumstances. Incest is not only socially unacceptable, but downright unhealthy. If things got to the point of her getting pregnant, the child would also have a significantly higher risk of being born retarded. I would suggest that you and your sister don't take this any further. Love each other the way brother and sister should and support each other, but look for sexual partners outside of your family.

HB asked, Dude, if u say I love You to your beloved and she replies with ' OK' with a striaght face, what does it mean? Does it mean she loves u too ? and says she cant say 'love u too' if she doesnt feel like saying it, in spite og knowing i love hearing the words from her. What do u think ?

Love Guru answers, I think that she doesn't love you. I'm sorry, I know that sounds mean, but maybe it's still early in the relationship and her feelings are not as intense as yours are. Don't force her to say it just because you like hearing it -- when she does say it of her own accord, it will mean a lot more to you.

Ashish asked, Dear LOve Guru My name is Ashish Sharma. I dont have any problem with my love or my Gf But the thing is that she is not wtih me and i want her in india she is france now she told me that she could come in may2008 and i think u can understand my situation better. what can i do now? please help me. i cant live without her.

Love Guru answers, Well, is she French? If so, I think once she gets here you should decide the future of your relationship. It's fine for her to come to India on vacation, but to live here would be a huge adjustment, one she might not be able to make. Have you considered moving to France? And if she's Indian but just studying or working there at the moment, you should just wait till she's back here for good.

santoshtiwari asked, hi LG...well, i am in relationship with 3 different girls, and all the 3 girls are of different nationalities, none of them being indian. My parents are very orthodox and believe in indian rituals. I dont have courage to tell them about my relationships. I have already told those girls that i cant marry them for some reason. Please help me in this situation.

Love Guru answers, Do you love any of them? So you have the courage to juggle three girlfriends but you don't have the courage to face up to your parents? If you love one of them and want a future with her, fight for it! Else just give up all three and settle for the girl your parents find for you -- but don't end up making her life miserable with extramarital affairs! If you want a fun, sexy girl you better make your own choice as far as taking a wife is concerned.

vicky asked, love guru , i got attracted towards a girl we started meeting and on our 1st date only she told me she is already in relationship with some body for last 3 years it come to me as a shock but i could couldnt resist my self and continued meeting her , her boy friend is not in town ,now its almost 1 year we are being meeting and we are really very close to each other ,, i definatly feel she loves me but she is not admitting it, she is still sticking to her relationship wit other guy i dont know wht to luv guru shall continue with her or stop meeting her

Love Guru answers, Tell her that she has to make a choice. She's probably feeling very guilty about her boyfriend and doesn't want to face up to the fact that she found someone else when he was away. But you can't help falling in love and when you do, it's better to face up to it. Tell her she's not being fair to him either, because he too deserves someone who loves him, don't you think?

roxcy asked, Can a person love or be loved more than once ? I yes can it be with the same person? Now I coem to my question ,recently I met my ex girlfriend 03 yrs after my marriage , we are again attracted to each other ? She wants to have living in relation with me ..Advice

Love Guru answers, Listen, when you meet an ex boyfriend or girlfriend sometimes old feelings do come up again. But you can't act on them! They belong to a closed chapter in your life and you are married now. Keep the memories and remain friends -- that's it. How would you feel if your wife was planning on cheating on you the same way?