Hello, I am Satyanarayan, and I was more self centric from the beginning of my childhood. I don't think that is a point but I said this as you can know how I am.

I am telling the true fact when I was in Hyderabad and was attending a training on German language course, where I met a very beautiful and well mannered girl. As I carried on mixing with my classmates including her, I was getting more attracted to her, during the training days we all had lots of fun. Call it the feminine power or so. After around 6 months of knowing each other I decided to approach her and tell her about my feelings.

I was confident that as per her behaviour during the recent times we both are going to be very happy. But I was shattered to pieces just after I proposed her on the D-Day. She just listened to me and didn't react anyway. I tried to reach her in her phone, even I went to meet her at her home with another friend girl but was helpless, till then I was in dilemma about the strange behaviour of that girl but I was not upset. But her activities in the next two days hurt me so deep that I could not find it comfortable to go to the Institute and land up in a mess.

She informed me of her denial to my proposal through one of our classmate who always wanted to envy me and start a rage/fight with me. In one word you can say another guy who didn't like we meet each other. She could have come to me and told or could have informed me personally.

I was really hurt with this and was all of for few days at home and at work, and was annoyed with my home for no reasons.

But one day my mother noticed something wrong and asked in doubt about any affair. When I enquired, she told that this is a problem with this age for all of us to handle ourselves and carry on ahead.

And observing this simple difference between my mom and my GF I was very much satisfied from within and started a new innings with out a small portion of thinking about that poor girl. And I am doing well now a days too and have learnt to take easy my life and the surroundings and also realised a simple thing, learn to love yourself and ask yourself that whether the girl you are thinking about really fit in all respects to be yours and really deserves to get your valuable attention...that's it guys. Hope my exp may help you out anyway.

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