'I've never thought of myself as beautiful.'
'Not that I think I am not beautiful.'
Dream Girl Hema Malini, who turned 73 on October 16, tells Subhash K Jha about the secret of her eternal glow.
Happy Birthday, Hemaji, and please stop lying about your age.
Thank you so much... but what do you mean?
I mean, you look no more than 40. What is this nonsense about 73?
Yeh to aap ka nazariya hai (that's only your perception).
Besides, age is just a number. You are as old or young as you feel.
I have to admit I don't feel 73.
How do you stay so fit, is it the dancing?
It used to be. But after Covid there is no stage for dancing.
Every Durga Puja I used to perform on stage.
For the last two years that has stopped. It is one of my lingering regrets.
Dancing is the best form of exercise. I learnt this from my idol Vyjanthimalaji.
What are you doing to make this birthday special?
My younger daughter Ahana is in Delhi. Dharamji will be joining us later during the day. That's when the cake-cutting will happen.
I have never been too fond of this ritual. When I used to be busy working on sets in my earlier days, the cake-cutting happened between shots on the sets only.
My elder daughter Esha is here in Mumbai with me. As you can hear, my grand-daughter is combing my hair. She thinks she is making me prettier.
Little does she know. You can't improve on perfection.
You know, I've never thought of myself as beautiful. Not that I think I am not beautiful.
But I don't sit in front of the mirror admiring myself for being the Dream Girl and all that. It is only when people like you remind me of my looks that I think about it.
'Aisa hai kya?', I wonder. Am I really beautiful?
Believe me, you look like an incarnation of Goddess Durga. Those who saw you with Mr Bachchan on Kaun Banega Crorepati can't get over how radiant you looked.
Did you like the show?
We did the Sholay dialogues. Bahot mazaa aaya.
Ramesh Sippy (the Sholay director) said, 'You must do not only your own dialogues. You must also do the other characters' lines. So I did Gabbar Singh's dialogues.'
I had lots of fun.
'This was a photoshoot specially done for a Tamil magazine (don't exactly remember the name) but I remember that it was shot in AVM Studios way before my Hindi debut with Raj Kapoorsaab in Sapnon Ka Saudagar.'
'I must have been 14 or 15 years old then. I wanted to add this photograph in my biography Beyond The Dreamgirl when author Ram Kamal Mukherjee was writing it. But sadly we couldn't find the image then.'
'I am glad that finally I found this, and now I am sharing with you all.'
Yes, we could see that. Your blue sari was perfectly colour coordinated with the KBC set. How did that happen?
I've no idea how that happened.
It was Manish Malhotra's idea. So I guess he must have designed it keeping the set in mind.
I've always said, my success is not about me alone. There are so many involved in the process.
I owe my success to my mother, to my brothers, my staff, my stylists and, above all, my audience which has stood by me for more than 50 years.
What is the secret of your abiding beauty?
Keep smiling all the time. Do the things that make you happy.
The minute you stop enjoying doing something, it becomes a burden.
Be with the people you like. That's why I've never pretended to like someone when I don't.
Any regrets in life?
None at all. By the grace of God I've everything.
A wonderful life, a loving family, daughters and sons-in-law who dote on me.
Grandchildren who have the right to pull my hair.
And the kind of beauty that very few are blessed with?
Aisa kya? If you say so.
Feature Presentation: Ashish Narsale/Rediff.com
