Is your gut telling you something?
1
When appearances become top priority
S/he suddenly changes hair style and perfume, gets a new wardrobe, and finds a renewed interest in fitness.
2
The lure of the virtual world
Your partner spends more time with virtual friends than with you and seems to follow/add as a friend a lot of new people you've never heard of.
3
Where's the love gone?
Your partner is less affectionate, and your intimate life is not what it used to be.
4
Not without my phone
In the kitchen, in front of the TV, in the bathroom, your partner always keeps his/her phone on him/her and always in silent mode. Yet you have difficulty reaching your partner during the day. You often go straight to the voicemail and your partner always has a new explanation for this lack of availability.
5
Mood swings
Your partner can be sweet and attentive one moment, and aggressive and distant the next. Your partner has a different body language and doesn't look you in the eye. He/her seems very uncomfortable when you ask questions about his/her schedule.
These are often signs that your partner is torn between the guilt of looking for a new encounter and the fact that you're keeping him/her from doing it.