rediffGURU Anu Krishna, mind coach and co-founder of Unfear Changemakers, suggests finding out what events might have led to a change in a spouse's behaviour.
Do you feel ignored by your spouse after marriage?
Do you think your spouse's behaviour has changed recently?
Could this be a warning sign as far as your relationship is concerned?
rediffGURU Anu Krishna, mind coach and co-founder of Unfear Changemakers, while counselling a married woman, recommends looking into the past for clues as to what might have influenced the change in her spouse's actions.
- You can post your relationship-related questions to rediffGURU Anu Krishna HERE.
Anonymous: I am 32, married for six years, no kids.
But I have been noticing that my partner has changed a lot.
He is talking less, I feel less emotional connection and we have been spending very little time together.
I don't know if there was any incident after which his behaviour changed or it is something that happened naturally.
Whenever I try to talk about it, it gets ignored.
I feel confused, stressed and worried about my marriage and this relationship. What should I do?
There's obviously something that has caused the relationship to take a downturn.
If you have had arguments, usually what have they been about?
That could be a clue that you can pursue and start a conversation...
Try and do certain activities together, plan a vacation, invite friends home... Basically, any activity involves the two of you could be a good way to approach this issue.
But, of course, if that conversation is not happening, kindly seek a therapist/professional who can help out with putting things together and guide you on rebuilding your marriage.
All the best!
- You can post your relationship-related questions to rediffGURU Anu Krishna HERE.
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