Sunita asked, hello LG, i m 25 married woman, just married one year ago, it is love marriage, and my hubby loves me alot, i am 100% faithfull to him, and i trusted him also, but suddenly i saw that my hubby flirting with lot of girls in net, by chatting and all these things, i got suprised, and now thinking why he did so, i m very very depressed, wot to do, i never forgive him , plz advised me
Love Guru answers, I can understand that his flirting online may have hurt you, but as long as it's only that, it's not such a huge issue to eave you feeling so pained. You can just have a chat with him and ask why he feels the need to flirt with strange women? And ask him how he would feel if you did the same. If he understands where you're coming from, he will put an end to it immediately.
Sindhu1986 asked, I am 23, year old my BF always shout at me without reason at one of my Friend loves me very much and both of them is good but i don't to leave the first one what to do
Love Guru answers, Who would you rather be with and love more? That's who you should pursue. And if it's your boyfriend, tell him you won't tolerate his shouting at you anymore.
priya asked, Hi LG. I am 21 years old. I love a guy and he too love me. we are in love for 3 years. We had many intimate moments but last month, we went to his friends party and got drunk. There I had intimate moments with 4-5 friends of his including him. But now he is not talking to me properly. What should I do?
Love Guru answers, What's wrong with you, woman? Drunk or not, how could you do something like that? 4-5 guys in one night, at the same party, who are all friends? I'm surprised he's talking to you at all. You've humiliated him, you've hit on his friends and they've all probably told him to dump you after having a good time. Apologise from the bottom of your heart, tell him it will never happen again and say your judgement was impaired because you were drunk. It's up to him whether he will take you back or not.
naina asked, HI LG,I love one guy n he also loves me...but due to a huge fight between us he never called me back on his own..i always used to call him and talk to him...i have also said sorry a no. of times..but he has got changed a lot..i cant live without talking to him...tell me wat to do to know that he still loves me?also he doesnt wanna answers any of my questions....
Love Guru answers, Huge fight or not, it's about time he forgave you. Tell him that you've had enough of his behaviour, that you've said sorry enough and that you can't be with a person who holds grudges forever. Love is about second chances and forgiveness and if he can't understand that, you're better off alone. Tell him he's better off dating his ego than you. I h ave a feeling that after you tell him this and hang up on him, he will come back to you in a few days' time.
Rajesh asked, Hi, LG
I am happily married from last 5 yrs, my ex gf accidently met me, now she is widow with one child, as a friend we exchange numbers, now she is calling me constant, initially it was friendly talk, later she spoke passionately about past life, before my marriage i asked about marriage but her parents were against and she was not willing to against her parents, now she want to be with me on any cost, i am avoiding her but she calls from different numbers, what should i do, i love mu wife very much.
Love Guru answers, Rajesh, you're doing the right thing by avoiding her calls. I'm sorry to hear that she's a widow and single parent, but she made her choice and you made yours. Explain the situation to your wife -- I'm sure she will understand you feeling sorry for her and exchanging numbers -- and have her answer the phone for the next couple of months. She will eventually get the hint and stop calling altogether.
Blues asked, How do u suggest talking to a guy about an issue that makes him real jittery (issue being his parents, who are forcing him to marry his late brother's wife, who has kids and his own choice of marrying a girl he likes). The guy cant muster the courage to refuse his old and ailing parents. So how does one broach a sensitive topic like this, without sounding clingy? Rather, should one broach this topic at all, because if the guy cares as much about the girl, he'll do the right thing, else it's better off the way it is. Ur views on this?
Love Guru answers, If he is your friend, explain that you're worried about him and the situation he is in. He should not be called upon to sacrifice his future happiness with another because his sister-in-law is a widow. He will come to resent her and his parents and it won't be a happy marriage. Tell him you stand by him as a friend and want to see him do the right thing.
pri asked, Hi LG, I am 20 year old girl. I had one-night stand 3-4 times. now i am getting addicted to it. Tell me how should i stop it.
Love Guru answers, You need to make a conscious effort not to fall into bed with every guy you meet or you will be labelled as a loose character. Start looking for a meaningful relationship that will fulfill you emotionally and physically. And remember, the more one night stands you have, the less the chance of finding the real thing.
Love Guru says, Time up, folks! Catch you next Thursday at 2 pm for our weekly session! Till then, email me at mailtheloveguru@rediffmail.com. Goodbye and God bless!
Also see: 'My girlfriend has a dreadful past'
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