tina asked, I am married for last two years now.I never felt like my husband really needs me he loves me but always find my faults and compare me with other smart women I dont know what to do as I have become his object of irritation

Love Guru answers, You start comparing him to other smart men. If he complains, tell him it's the same way you feel whenever he does it to you. If he has any sense, he'll stop it. Also tell him that he is taking your love for granted by constantly finding fault with you. If you're as irritating as he claims, why is he still married to you?

sandyhjadhav asked, Hi love guru.. Sandip here.. n i m having crush on a gal in my office... She is having a boyfriend... i don't mind for it.. But i just wana convey my feelings to her.. irespective of her answer... But at the same time i don't want to lose my friendship with her... We r d best friends in company and outside also... So wht i could do...?? Shall i tell her everything or contine with current situation...? Please help me yaar.. thanks :-)

Love Guru answers, Sandip, just tell her everything. No matter how she feels, she is a good friend and will understand the situation. she deserves to know how you feel.

eger to knw asked, hi,iam 23 aged done sex activity with my fiancy nw what i do

Love Guru answers, smile and try again?

dipayan_58 asked, I am single till yesterday but Now I am going to create a new relation with someone,Please suggest me what is my approach towards that girl.

Love Guru answers, In one word: Optimistic :)

priya asked, hello love guru. i like a guy but my parents dont like him as he is not from our caste and they want me to separate. but he also has a past and his friends have told me that he is not of a good character? but he says he loves me how can i know if he is telling a truth or a lie?

Love Guru answers, How long have you been with him? If you knew him well enough, you would be able to answer all these questions yourself. Since you can't, it doesn't seem like you really know him well. And if you don't know him well, you should not be taking any step away from him or toward him till you are sure.

speedobtt_jb asked, hi im 22 nd mu luv lady is 44... im in india nd shes in phill... i dont hv money to get there nor she hv.. nor i cn ask hlp frm my parents... bt i cant liv widout her... Wht to do?

Love Guru answers, Let me guess -- you fell in love over the Internet and have never met this woman? Do you have any idea of the consequences of committing to someone double your age? You can forget about having kids, for one thing -- and when you're 44, she'll be 66! You're too young to be making such foolish decisions. Grow up!

aadi asked, HI LOVE GURU, I AM 21 YR BOY IN LOVE WITH MY NEIGHBORS SON. I THINK HE UNDERSTANDS MY FEELINGS AND GIVES ME POSITIVES RESPONSES...I AM NOT ABLE TO FIND OUT IF HE HAS THE SAME SEXUAL ORIENTATION AS I DO. PLEASE SUGGEST ME A WAY I CAN FIND OUT HIS SEXUAL ORIENTATION.

Love Guru answers, Ask him. If you feel that he is responding positively, try to find out directly from him without beating around the bush. he might be confused, be sensitive.

rinku asked, i am facing a crisis in marriage.i do not know what to do whether to divorce him or not.i am very confused.

Love Guru answers, What's the problem in your marriage? Do you have children? I can't help you if you don't tell me what the trouble is, my dear.

moses asked, LG Answer me, I am 32 but still not feeling good to get married, is there a problem with me.

Love Guru answers, not at all, moses. you don't *need* to be married to be happy. just take your time and wait till you are comfortable, if you ever are. else, the single life can be quite grand.

drishti asked, hi, im 19, in a relationship since a yr now!im sure of his commitment to me but my bf flirts a lot with other girls n i dont like it! wen i confront him, he insists that itz only healthy flirting bt im nt convinced. wat do i do?

Love Guru answers, drishti, you should ideally give your boyfriend the benefit of the doubt. still, if you're that uncomfortable with it tell him to try and cut back on the 'healthy flirting' a little and maybe introduce you to his female friends so that you feel more secure.

rash asked, Hey my problem is that I like a boy from last 6 months. Only one month ago, we started talking bcz he is very shy guy and doesn't talk with girls... We talked for a month. We fought twice in one month. The reason was that he is very moody and he talks to me only when he wanted to talk... In the recent fight, I said him that I dnt want to see u again in life... then we didn't talk for 10 days. I waited for his call but he didn't do. After that, I myself tried to talk to him. He disconnected my phone and send me sms that why do u want to talk to me when u don't want to see me again... I said sorry to him and send him 2-3 messages, he didn't reply rather he said that don't bother me... What should I do now?? I want him back... But he is very introvert.

Love Guru answers, Being introvert is one thing and being moody, egotistical, unforgiving and difficult is quite another. This boy seems like a control freak and you would be better off without him. Tell him plainly that you can do without a foul-natured, unforgiving fool like him and tell him not to contact you again! Most likely he will, because that is the way such people operate. You really should think twice before resuming a relationship with him even if he comes back.

sumi asked, Hi this is Sumi, A girl proposed me few days back I like her but their family asked me to marry her this year or they will find a groom for her. I cannot marry her this year as I have recently joined the job and dont know the future because the job is performance based. I asked her to wait for atleast 2 years but her family refused. Should I let her go. Need your advise. Need your valuable advice.

Love Guru answers, Well, if you are really interested in the girl then you can ask her to wait, despite what her family says. on the other hand, if you haven't known her for a really long time and aren't sure about marrying her, then perhaps you are better suited to working hard at your job for the next couple of years before entertaining thoughts of marriage.