Hrishi asked, Hi LG,
I met a Spanish Girl last week, I'm in love with her, She has returned back to Spain. We r in touch with emails. I donno wat 2 do nxt.. plz help me..
Love Guru answers, You met her a week ago and you're already in love? I think it's infatuation and it's more intense because you knew she would be leaving soon. You can keep in touch via email, but you need to know if she feels the same about you. So write and tell her about your feelings first. If she refuses you, that's pretty much all there is to it. If not, let me warn you that long-distance relationships are tough. And what kind of future would you be looking at? It's easy to develop a crush in a week, darling -- it's not so easy to answer all the issues that arise as a result.
bhagya asked, iam 30 year old ..married ..having a son...i have affairs/physical relation with 2 married womens..now i really bored and get out of this ..please advice.
Love Guru answers, Don't take these things so lightly, mister. You cheated on your wife with two women and now claim to be 'bored'? Don't you have a conscience? Tell your mistresses you want to remain faithful to your wife and call things off with both. And remember, what goes around comes around -- if your wife cheated on you, you'd learn a lesson.
shailesh asked, how can i know if a girl has any other boy friend and how can i clear my confusion that is she with someone or not
Love Guru answers, Ask her.
ashish1980 asked, I am a married guy but having differences with my wife as well as in sex life. How could i renourish my relation?
Love Guru answers, By compromising and reconciliating those differences. You need to respect your wife's point of view and she needs to do the same. So meet each toher half-way and you'll be happy.
prit asked, ove guru..one of my senior in office proposed me and I had askd him to call home.My parents had agreed then..but now they r not willing..sinc
Love Guru answers, What made them change their minds? Discuss it with them. And you haven't said whether you feel the same way about him as he feels about you? Doesn't your opinion matter in all of this? You're the one who's to get married!
shubham asked, Hi love guru,I m 25. I liked a girl in school life, infact I love her very much but i didn't tell her that,but after school we were separated & she had gone to some other place.But last 2-3 months ago we met in internet by chatting, and all that past emotions & feelings are again dancing in my mind. This time I had proposed to her, but she wants to continue relationship as a friend. And from my side m unable to forget that feelings. What should I do, HELPPPPPPP me please.
Love Guru answers, Shubham, you've built up this fairytale childhood love story in your mind and you need to realise that things don't quite function that way in real life. Your friend has long since moved on after school and things were one-sided, my dear -- from your end only. So respect her wishes and realise that it was a childhood crush, nothing more.
anil1 asked, hi love guru, i had a love marriage. and ultimately a divorce. i am unable to get my ex-wife completely out of my mind. though thoughts about her have decreased with time, still they have not been totally erased. this really stresses me out. can you help please
Love Guru answers, Well, are you re-thinking your divorce? You haven't said how long ago it was. Do you think you made a hasty decision in going through with it? Do you still miss her? In retrospect, do you think it was your fault? Whatever the reason, you need to address those issues if you're still in love. It's never too late, you know. On the other hand, after a failed marriage, it is natural that memories of that person will always live with you. So stop letting it stress you out -- it's natural.
suh asked, Hi LG, I had crush with a girl and unfortunately we couldnt marry. While my marriage, I told everything truly to my wife, thinking transperent relationship. But now my wife, is so passessive, she feels insecureness, my life looks hell. Is that mean, hiding our secrets is good thing?
Love Guru answers, No, it isn't. You did the right thing -- if you had hidden it and she had found out later, the situation would hae been worse! But your wife needs to change her attitude! Sit her down and tell her that if you wanted to cheat on her you wouldn't have told her anything to begin with! She needs to deal with this maturely and she absolutely HAS to trust you! No being possessive or insecure -- tell her you won't tolerate such nonsense and as your wife, she should trust you. She is not a teenager, she's a grown woman -- so tell her to start acting like one.
Love Guru says, Time's up, people! See you next week! Till then, email me at mailtheloveguru@rediffmail.com! Good luck and God bless!
Also see: 'After having sex I now find her boring'
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