His elder sibling, Aravind says, is a "jolly fellow" who would help with
studies, who taught him chess and yoga. Nandakumar's success has, he says,
given him cachet with his own friends in college, some of whom plan to write
the UPSC exam.
"I have given them my brother's number, so they can ask him
for tips," Aravind says, with more than a hint of pride.
For both Aravind and Nandakumar, their parents are "our gods". "We are proud
of our father," Aravind says. "He is very hardworking and very thrifty."
At the centre of all the attention, Nandakumar is a bit bewildered by it all
-- especially his sudden, unlooked for fame.
There is no secret to success, he says, seemingly puzzled that someone would
even ask. "It was hard work and nothing else," he says. "It was a group
effort. We are five friends who studied together."
The friends went together to trawl through the market, looking for books
relating to the civil services; they then pored over their finds. Newspapers
were devoured cover to back page, with meticulous care.
"For current affairs, they usually ask questions about the last one year, so you have to
read a lot of newspapers," Nandakumar points out.
Like his younger brother, Nandakumar too believes that if there is a
"secret" to his "success", it is his father.
"I am lucky to have a very friendly father," Nandakumar says. "He is very understanding. I can discuss
anything with him. More than a father, he is a friend."
"He always allowed me to express my thoughts freely. Because of his job, he
has had exposure to people and places all over India; maybe that is why he
has given me so much freedom to express myself."
Down time with his father is a rare commodity since he is always behind the
wheel of his lorry, travelling to wherever work takes him.
"My father doesn't even have a mobile; when he gets somewhere, he calls, and that is
how we stay in touch." Nandakumar recalls how, when he passed the UPSC and
got a job with the Railways, it was over a month before he could share the
news with his father.
Photograph: A Ganesh Nadar
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