Onam was celebrated as a unique and memorable family event in the Venugopals' cosy home in Mumbai for many years.
All the Venugopals would gather, in appropriate finery, on Thiruvonam, the final day, and Gouri Venugopal would laboriously cook up a special banana-leaf sadhya of eight to 10 dishes, at least, in honour of King Mahabali.
It would include: Sambar, Avial (a vegetable curry), a stew or Olan, an erissery (a thick coconut curry), a Pachadi or raita, around two types of thorans (sauteed vegetables), Puliyenji (imli or tamarind relish), cut mango pickle, Papadams, banana chips, jaggery banana chips and one or two versions of Payasam.
In 2009, she and her husband, V Venugopal, retired to Kerala, to his village of Kavalappara, near Shoranur, in Palakkad district; she hails from Ottappalam, hardly 10 km away. The rhythm of their lives changed completely. They moved into a typical Kerala home, built along traditional lines, and Gouri loved puttering around their garden.
She also fed a whole flock of stray cats generous portions of fish (though she is a vegetarian) when the fishwallah came by on his scooter, loudly hawking it with a peculiar call; the sound of his voice attracted the feline hordes to her gate. More fish was also frozen for future feeds.
Celebrations of Onam over there gained a new flavour too. It was celebrated in her husband's ancestral home nearby, and his brother, sister, their families, and other relatives feasted together. Gouri's sons and daughter Durga and the spouses, children, could not make it to Kerala for Onam because of school/college routines, although an exclusive, out-of-Onam-season sadhya was always organised in May for their granddaughter Maya's birthday.
Gouri does not prepare grand sadhyas for Onam these days, because she is on her own and has a lot of work maintaining their plot, looking after the drumstick, curry leaf, papaya, banana trees.
And growing her vegetables -- okra or lady's fingers, chawli beans, green chillies, eggplant or brinjal, suran (elephant foot yam), pumpkin, tomatoes, turmeric, leafy vegetables like spinach, lal math -- with the help of old garden hands Kumari and Chami.
And then there are the cats who need attention. Sadhyas are now reserved for when the family visits.
Whenever Gouri is/was preparing a sadhya meal for the family, or for Onam, one of the must-have items is Pumpkin Olan, made from either white or yellow pumpkin (also called ash gourd) with black-eyed beans or chawli. Says daughter Durga about this preparation: "It's very simple, but I love her Olan."
Also on the menu were various little side dishes. Durga explains: "The add-ons really provide the flavour and are yummy. I love Puliyenji especially."
One of the regularly-featured sides is yoghurt-based Aayiaram or 1,000 Curry, which, in its simplicity, apparently is the equivalent of a 1,000 curries, hence the sort of tongue-in-cheek name. And then there's much-enjoyed relish Puliyenji, made from tamarind and ginger.
Gouri shares these recipes, so go ahead try them and get in the Onam mood.
Happy Onam Dear Readers!
Pumpkin Olan
Serves: 3 to 4
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Gouri's Note: If making the Olan with tender red pumpkin, you can add black-eyed beans or chawli. Pressure cook, beforehand, ½ a cup of soaked chawli. Add it while cooking the pumpkin in the second coconut milk.
Aayiaram or 1,000 Curry
Serves: 2 to 3
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Puliyenji
Serves: 3-4
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