'I told Lily I was gonna ask her [Baumgartner], and she thought that was really great, and it's been great how the kids have received her.
'When I told her I was gonna do it, and she started asking me, 'Well, did you get the flowers?' I said, 'No.' 'Did you get the candles?' 'No.' I hadn't really thought this through completely, and that's what's been great about how they received us.
'So Lily told me exactly what to do, and I went and did it,' Costner was quoted as saying by Contactmusic.com. 'I was directed!'
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